When we have been on our own for some time it can be difficult to entertain the notion of having a special someone entering our lives. Whether we are aware of it or not, we will have developed our own comfortable routines, a circle of friends, various interests, all pleasant ways of filling our time. This is an invaluable way of adapting to our situation but it can also become an insular way to live. The reality check can occur if there is the potential for a new, happy, successful relationship on the horizon.
Learning to trust another person emotionally is a big step, especially if there has been hurt in the past, or a long time has elapsed since a relationship. That, and letting another person into our personal space can require considerable physical and mental adjustment. Trusting someone enough to relax and allow them to know how we are feeling, rather than just being polite and self protective entails giving the other person information that they can use however they choose. That is a vulnerable position to be in as it requires us to relax and let go of all those carefully built reserves and safeguards.
Appreciating that a new relationship can only progress by building stepping stones of honest and open communication in which both people have to participate, is an important acknowledgement. Frank and open sharing has to occur as a first step in getting to know each other. Admitting how we are feeling about the other persons actions, behaviour, words and why we feel that way, is a good way of learning about ourselves. 'Owning' or appreciating that these are our own reactions based on our past experiences, and then understanding the reasons behind those reactions can be really useful in freeing us from our old baggage. It has a huge therapeutic value.
Some people find counselling and hypnotherapy especially helpful at a time like this. When a relationship has gone bad many people form negative patterns of behaviour as a way of protecting themselves, understandably, from future hurt and disappointments. They may well become over sensitive to the slightest negative look, word, comment and shut off to retreat behind a protective wall at the least hint of rejection, taking it all as a personal attack. Using professional help to heal the old associations about relationships, the negative experiences that have been lived through, can allow a person become more confident, assertive and comfortable about expressing their viewpoints and opinions and enjoy building a new life in every way. It allows a person to start again in the truest sense of the word.
Embarking on a new relationship does not mean abandoning the old single life for good. Many people have a successful emotional relationship with a good partner whilst still enjoying the friends, hobbies and interests that they have built up over time. Some of these things may still be enjoyed on ones own. Other things may be brought into the relationship and shared together. There is scope for both options and having varied activities makes a person interesting, brings added value into the new relationship and is also a sensible safety net in case things do not work out well together in the long term.
The truth is all relationships, even with family and friends require input and nurturing. Sometimes one person may feel that they are doing all the giving, making all the effort, but often the balance is levelled out at a later stage when the other person has a need for extra support and understanding.
Relationships are about taking a chance on another person, but by being positive and open we give off a good level of energy in our daily communications and that in itself bodes well for building trust and optimism in all our different relationships and interactions. Starting a new relationship puts us in touch with our own feelings again, enables better communication and understanding and enables us to grow and develop as a human being. This can filter through into all our interactions with the different people we come into contact with in everyday life. Hard work maybe, but definitely valuable in many different ways.
Susan Leigh is a Counsellor and Hypnotherapist who works with - stressed individuals to promote confidence and self belief, - couples in crisis to help improve communications and understanding - with business clients to help support the health and motivation levels of individuals and teams. For more information see http://www.lifestyletherapy.net
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Saturday, January 30, 2010
Friday, January 29, 2010
Think Again Before Getting Back With Your Ex
Nearly everywhere we look these days we see advice about how to get back together with your ex. There are magazines, websites and even books devoted to this topic. It seems that every relationship expert out there has something to say about whether or not you should get back with your ex.
But before you start reading or listening to any advice about getting back with your ex, it will be important for you to think for a bit about why you want to get back with your ex. Ask yourself these questions and allow yourself to truly be honest with the answers.
• How long have you been separated with your ex?
• Why do you want to get back together with your ex?
• What is it you miss the most about your ex?
• Are you feeling depressed and lonely?
• Have you spoken to your ex since the breakup?
• What kind of relationship do you have with your ex since the breakup?
Sometimes we just think we want to get back with our ex because we are lonely or we have not adjusted to the new changes in our lives. We long for what is familiar, even if that means a bad or unhealthy relationship.
Just because you think you want to get back with your ex does not mean this is really the best choice for you right now. There's also the point of whether or not your ex even wants to be back with you. If they are saying they don't want to be with you, you don't want to waste time and effort trying to "win" them back. If you are serious about trying to make it work again, you need to come from an approach of understanding why they do not want to be back with you and how you can work on that to repair what is broken in the relationship.
If you're not even on speaking terms or a friendship basis with your ex, you certainly don't want to try to jump back in the relationship where it left off. You will need to get to know one another again. It's almost like starting over from the beginning except this time you have baggage from the former relationship.
Next time you find yourself thinking should you get back with your ex, just remember the tips here in this article. No one else can tell you whether or not this is the right decision for you to make. Only you can make that choice but now you have some guidelines to help you make this decision for yourself.
Allan has been writing articles for nearly 2 years now. Not only does this author specialize in diet, fitness and weight loss, you can also check out his latest website at http://www.oxosaladspinners.com which reviews various products such as an Oxo Salad Spinner and various Good Grips Salad Spinners etc.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com
But before you start reading or listening to any advice about getting back with your ex, it will be important for you to think for a bit about why you want to get back with your ex. Ask yourself these questions and allow yourself to truly be honest with the answers.
• How long have you been separated with your ex?
• Why do you want to get back together with your ex?
• What is it you miss the most about your ex?
• Are you feeling depressed and lonely?
• Have you spoken to your ex since the breakup?
• What kind of relationship do you have with your ex since the breakup?
Sometimes we just think we want to get back with our ex because we are lonely or we have not adjusted to the new changes in our lives. We long for what is familiar, even if that means a bad or unhealthy relationship.
Just because you think you want to get back with your ex does not mean this is really the best choice for you right now. There's also the point of whether or not your ex even wants to be back with you. If they are saying they don't want to be with you, you don't want to waste time and effort trying to "win" them back. If you are serious about trying to make it work again, you need to come from an approach of understanding why they do not want to be back with you and how you can work on that to repair what is broken in the relationship.
If you're not even on speaking terms or a friendship basis with your ex, you certainly don't want to try to jump back in the relationship where it left off. You will need to get to know one another again. It's almost like starting over from the beginning except this time you have baggage from the former relationship.
Next time you find yourself thinking should you get back with your ex, just remember the tips here in this article. No one else can tell you whether or not this is the right decision for you to make. Only you can make that choice but now you have some guidelines to help you make this decision for yourself.
Allan has been writing articles for nearly 2 years now. Not only does this author specialize in diet, fitness and weight loss, you can also check out his latest website at http://www.oxosaladspinners.com which reviews various products such as an Oxo Salad Spinner and various Good Grips Salad Spinners etc.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com
Preparing For Marriage? Things to Do Before Saying I Do
A lot of marriages failed, mostly in their first five years as a couple, because of unpreparedness before saying their "I do". A lot of couples fell in love and directly thought that this is the man/woman they are looking for. After the wedding and a blissful honeymoon, everything became a nightmare because of a lot of reasons. Some of the main reasons are high expectations, lack of communication, money problems, and the worst, an illicit love affair.
Let us not talk about the last reason above. Rather, let us understand why these things happened. Since this article is all about readiness before marriages, then we will focus on this side of marriage.
Preparation before marriage must be taken into consideration. In fact a lot of divorce or separation could have been avoided if couples went through counseling sessions or seminars before the wedding. My husband and I went through these counseling sessions before exchanging our wedding vows. The only thing I can say is that I am really grateful that we did it. Now, I will share the things we have learned:
1. High expectations. A lot of marriages started nice and good but when the wife/husband realized the weaknesses of the partner, things started to change. "This is not the kind of woman I wanted to marry." "I never expected that my husband snores a lot." The complaints will not end there. Slowly the other looks on the other in a negative manner.
Counsel: Think of your partner as a unique/special person. Your partner has good points, too. That is the reason why you fell in love in the first place. Rather, think on how you can complement your talents and gifting with each other. Try to look on your partner in a positive manner.
Course of action: After the counsel we were required to write down all our expectations with our partner and, the things we like and dislike as a person. We, also, wrote the good and bad points that we saw toward our partner. Then I shared my list to my husband and he gave his list to me. Think of our reactions as we read the list. Through those lists, we talked about how to work things out even we were not yet married at that time. Then we kept doing this course of action once in a while, even until now. My husband and I will be having our wedding 18th anniversary this December and our relationship is getting sweeter in every moment.
2. Lack of Communication. This is one of the marriage killers in the history of mankind. Men tend not to openly communicate their feelings while women are very expressive. Also, women, most of the time, assume that the partner understood their actions without verbally explaining it. See the big difference?
Counsel: Human beings are quite like idiots a lot of times. How can one understand the other person without saying it through words? That is exactly why we should verbally communicate what is in our hearts. My husband always says he loves me every day on a of lot ways. I know what these actions means because he told me his codes. One of his codes is that he just simply taps me three times and that means "I love you."
Course of Action: We were told by our counselor to share the things in our minds to our partner without thinking of rejection and we treat the other the same way. We were told to think of it as a way to improve ourselves. At the same time, to try to listen first what the other has to say without reacting negatively right away. With this practicum, we were able to practice sharing our thoughts with each other. This practicum always reminded us on how to communicate well until now.
3. Money Problems. This problem can, also, be part of lack of communication. Budgeting is a major issue as well.
Counsel: In marriage, there is a possibility that either one of the couple is careful when it comes to money matter while the other is the opposite. Each should learn to communicate when money is concerned. Both must learn to live according to their means and not through their wants. Both must talk first if one will purchase a major item for the household or for personal use. Even if the couples earned from their own jobs but sharing your thoughts to your partner is all about trust and friendship as a couple.
Course of Action: We wrote down our incomes on paper. Then we prepared a list of expense priorities for the family. We, also, wrote the things we wanted to see in our household, like owning a house, and the preparations for the future, like insurance. Then we tried to budget our money based on our priorities first then for the other things. This experience enabled us to go back to this course of action every time money problem comes in and before we make major decisions.
I can keep on writing but to cover the major issues is an accomplishment as well. Hoping this article will help you as you prepare to be tied forever to your special somebody. These counsels are also applicable to already married couples. I hope this helps you because it helped us a lot.
Eli Jone E. Bacarro had previously worked as one of the staff in a drug rehabilitation for women in Cebu, Philippines. She has the desire to help families undergoing divorce. She is, also, willing to counsel victims of incest.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com
Let us not talk about the last reason above. Rather, let us understand why these things happened. Since this article is all about readiness before marriages, then we will focus on this side of marriage.
Preparation before marriage must be taken into consideration. In fact a lot of divorce or separation could have been avoided if couples went through counseling sessions or seminars before the wedding. My husband and I went through these counseling sessions before exchanging our wedding vows. The only thing I can say is that I am really grateful that we did it. Now, I will share the things we have learned:
1. High expectations. A lot of marriages started nice and good but when the wife/husband realized the weaknesses of the partner, things started to change. "This is not the kind of woman I wanted to marry." "I never expected that my husband snores a lot." The complaints will not end there. Slowly the other looks on the other in a negative manner.
Counsel: Think of your partner as a unique/special person. Your partner has good points, too. That is the reason why you fell in love in the first place. Rather, think on how you can complement your talents and gifting with each other. Try to look on your partner in a positive manner.
Course of action: After the counsel we were required to write down all our expectations with our partner and, the things we like and dislike as a person. We, also, wrote the good and bad points that we saw toward our partner. Then I shared my list to my husband and he gave his list to me. Think of our reactions as we read the list. Through those lists, we talked about how to work things out even we were not yet married at that time. Then we kept doing this course of action once in a while, even until now. My husband and I will be having our wedding 18th anniversary this December and our relationship is getting sweeter in every moment.
2. Lack of Communication. This is one of the marriage killers in the history of mankind. Men tend not to openly communicate their feelings while women are very expressive. Also, women, most of the time, assume that the partner understood their actions without verbally explaining it. See the big difference?
Counsel: Human beings are quite like idiots a lot of times. How can one understand the other person without saying it through words? That is exactly why we should verbally communicate what is in our hearts. My husband always says he loves me every day on a of lot ways. I know what these actions means because he told me his codes. One of his codes is that he just simply taps me three times and that means "I love you."
Course of Action: We were told by our counselor to share the things in our minds to our partner without thinking of rejection and we treat the other the same way. We were told to think of it as a way to improve ourselves. At the same time, to try to listen first what the other has to say without reacting negatively right away. With this practicum, we were able to practice sharing our thoughts with each other. This practicum always reminded us on how to communicate well until now.
3. Money Problems. This problem can, also, be part of lack of communication. Budgeting is a major issue as well.
Counsel: In marriage, there is a possibility that either one of the couple is careful when it comes to money matter while the other is the opposite. Each should learn to communicate when money is concerned. Both must learn to live according to their means and not through their wants. Both must talk first if one will purchase a major item for the household or for personal use. Even if the couples earned from their own jobs but sharing your thoughts to your partner is all about trust and friendship as a couple.
Course of Action: We wrote down our incomes on paper. Then we prepared a list of expense priorities for the family. We, also, wrote the things we wanted to see in our household, like owning a house, and the preparations for the future, like insurance. Then we tried to budget our money based on our priorities first then for the other things. This experience enabled us to go back to this course of action every time money problem comes in and before we make major decisions.
I can keep on writing but to cover the major issues is an accomplishment as well. Hoping this article will help you as you prepare to be tied forever to your special somebody. These counsels are also applicable to already married couples. I hope this helps you because it helped us a lot.
Eli Jone E. Bacarro had previously worked as one of the staff in a drug rehabilitation for women in Cebu, Philippines. She has the desire to help families undergoing divorce. She is, also, willing to counsel victims of incest.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com
Romantic Relationships: A Spiritual Perspective
Meeting someone so attractive, so beautiful. Your heart beats like the rhythm at the races and your knees become Jell-O.
We all know this feeling of falling in love and seeing the amazing beauty in another. Couples fall in love blissfully and fall out of it with such heartache. Love does not have to be so difficult and as we all have grown to learn, you get out of something what you put into it. But there is a thin line to keep an eye on here. Our minds have grown to make us believe that we are “not complete”; “unfulfilled” or “unloved”, until we meet the love of our life. This was the mind talking (also known as the Ego), not our soul.
Your soul knows that you are complete, an extraordinary being, a creations of God. A creations of God being a creation of love. Innately, inside of you, you are pure love and our Ego is here to challenge that. Only when you love like God loves, you will experience the fulfilled life that we call “heaven”. God loves all equally, no-one is more special than any other. Which brings us to the “Special Relationship”.
When two people catch a glimpse of each other’s beauty, we often get a feeling that the relationship will fulfill our emptiness and we clutch onto the other person. Initially you might have extraordinary times, but the core on which such relationships are built, is simply your “thought” that you are not complete and that you NEED another to complete you. It is for this reason that when such relationships change form (traditionally known as ending the relationship), that lots of pain is experienced. Release your partner and all people in your life every moment. This is one of the principles to fulfilling relationships.
When you wish the other person their freedom and have faith that the relationship will serve both of you, for your spiritual growth, beautiful things come to fruition. Set them free every moment of the day and have the knowing that the purpose of the relationship is to create opportunities for you to “show up” and be the most glorious, most amazing person you know you are. This includes forgiving, not judging, showing compassion and loving unconditionally.
Relationships have nothing to do with the other person. Knowing this puts you in a powerful place where you have control over how you feel and who you are going to be in the relationship. Initially there will be bliss and lots of joy, followed by opportunities to work on your soul. I once read that you ask for God to send you the perfect partner, but instead he sends you something much better – someone slightly less than what you expected. See the relationship as a sacred space where you can grow. Your soul knows that you will slowly re-member your magnificence and uses romantic relationships to show us that.
We see that so often by being told my our loved ones how amazing we are, just to remind us of our soul’s natural state – perfection. Perfection does not mean you will not experience heartache, sadness or some of the less pleasing experiences, but it does mean that you are wonderful as you are and need not change a thing. Play fully – every moment of the way. Open your heart and love without bounds. When you open your heart completely and love another without conditions, people see the perfect person you are and get a glimpse of the God within you. Do not be afraid of rejection of any kind, because remember rejection does not mean anything is “wrong” with you, it is just a choice the other soul makes on it’s journey. You are complete and perfect by design and need not chance a thing about you to be loved – just love others and you will experience love.
This lesson places lots of emphasis on judgment. When we find someone and label the relationship as “Special”, so easily we place expectations on that person: “Will he call by 6?” or “Will she like what I got her?”. We place too much emphasis on the “form” of the relationship and less on the “content”.
A holy relationship is intimate, has authenticity, and allows freedom for the souls to grow. You need not be in a Romantic Relationship in order to experience intimacy. Your best friend allows you to cry when you wish to do so and he/she does not judge you for being sad. Consider being that to your Romantic Partner, allowing them the freedom to be anyway and know they are loved, irrespective of what space they are in on that day. Are your needs met? You have no “needs” for you have it all. You are whole and complete, filled with pure love. Consider that you have no lack and by doing so, you have no needs. You might have some things you wish to experience, but experiencing them could be with anyone, not only your Romantic Partner. Our generation has separated ourselves from God. “Separated from God” does not mean we are ignoring the entity called “God”, but instead, it means we have removed ourselves from the “knowing” that we are all love. That we are all connected, all beings, all elements and all that exists are one energy source called “God”, experienced as LOVE.
We can regain that consciousness by loving every being, every element and all opportunities that crosses our path – equally.
Meeting someone so attractive, so beautiful. Your heart beats like the rhythm at the races and your knees become Jell-O.
We all know this feeling of falling in love and seeing the amazing beauty in another. Couples fall in love blissfully and fall out of it with such heartache. Love does not have to be so difficult and as we all have grown to learn, you get out of something what you put into it. But there is a thin line to keep an eye on here. Our minds have grown to make us believe that we are “not complete”; “unfulfilled” or “unloved”, until we meet the love of our life. This was the mind talking (also known as the Ego), not our soul.
Your soul knows that you are complete, an extraordinary being, a creations of God. A creations of God being a creation of love. Innately, inside of you, you are pure love and our Ego is here to challenge that. Only when you love like God loves, you will experience the fulfilled life that we call “heaven”. God loves all equally, no-one is more special than any other. Which brings us to the “Special Relationship”.
When two people catch a glimpse of each other’s beauty, we often get a feeling that the relationship will fulfil our emptiness and we clutch onto the other person. Initially you might have extraordinary times, but the core on which such relationships are built, is simply your “thought” that you are not complete and that you NEED another to complete you. It is for this reason that when such relationships change form (traditionally known as ending the relationship), that lots of pain is experienced. Release your partner and all people in your life every moment. This is one of the principles to fulfilling relationships.
When you wish the other person their freedom and have faith that the relationship will serve both of you, for your spiritual growth, beautiful things come to fruition. Set them free every moment of the day and have the knowing that the purpose of the relationship is to create opportunities for you to “show up” and be the most glorious, most amazing person you know you are. This includes forgiving, not judging, showing compassion and loving unconditionally.
Relationships have nothing to do with the other person. Knowing this puts you in a powerful place where you have control over how you feel and who you are going to be in the relationship. Initially there will be bliss and lots of joy, followed by opportunities to work on your soul. I once read that you ask for God to send you the perfect partner, but instead he sends you something much better – someone slightly less than what you expected. See the relationship as a sacred space where you can grow. Your soul knows that you will slowly re-member your magnificence and uses romantic relationships to show us that.
We see that so often by being told my our loved ones how amazing we are, just to remind us of our soul’s natural state – perfection. Perfection does not mean you will not experience heartache, sadness or some of the less pleasing experiences, but it does mean that you are wonderful as you are and need not change a thing. Play fully – every moment of the way.
Open your heart and love without bounds. When you open your heart completely and love another without conditions, people see the perfect person you are and get a glimpse of the God within you. Do not be afraid of rejection of any kind, because remember rejection does not mean anything is “wrong” with you, it is just a choice the other soul makes on it’s journey. You are complete and perfect by design and need not chance a thing about you to be loved – just love others and you will experience love.
This lesson places lots of emphasis on judgment. When we find someone and label the relationship as “Special”, so easily we place expectations on that person: “Will he call by 6?” or “Will she like what I got her?”. We place too much emphasis on the “form” of the relationship and less on the “content”.
A holy relationship is intimate, has authenticity, and allows freedom for the souls to grow. You need not be in a Romantic Relationship in order to experience intimacy. Your best friend allows you to cry when you wish to do so and he/she does not judge you for being sad. Consider being that to your Romantic Partner, allowing them the freedom to be anyway and know they are loved, irrespective of what space they are in on that day. Are your needs met? You have no “needs” for you have it all. You are whole and complete, filled with pure love.
Consider that you have no lack and by doing so, you have no needs. You might have some things you wish to experience, but experiencing them could be with anyone, not only your Romantic Partner. Our generation has separated ourselves from God. “Separated from God” does not mean we are ignoring the entity called “God”, but instead, it means we have removed ourselves from the “knowing” that we are all love. That we are all connected, all beings, all elements and all that exists are one energy source called “God”, experienced as LOVE.
We can regain that consciousness by loving every being, every element and all opportunities that crosses our path – equally.
About The Author
Justin Luyt, the author of "The Spirit of Romance" has been consulting and training individuals and corporations for over 10 years. He has build a successful Romance Coaching practice at [http://www.RomanceCoaching.biz] as well as released his latest book in 2004 - "The Spirit of Romance", which is now available at [http://www.Romance-IT.com]. 1-877-ROMANCE
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com
We all know this feeling of falling in love and seeing the amazing beauty in another. Couples fall in love blissfully and fall out of it with such heartache. Love does not have to be so difficult and as we all have grown to learn, you get out of something what you put into it. But there is a thin line to keep an eye on here. Our minds have grown to make us believe that we are “not complete”; “unfulfilled” or “unloved”, until we meet the love of our life. This was the mind talking (also known as the Ego), not our soul.
Your soul knows that you are complete, an extraordinary being, a creations of God. A creations of God being a creation of love. Innately, inside of you, you are pure love and our Ego is here to challenge that. Only when you love like God loves, you will experience the fulfilled life that we call “heaven”. God loves all equally, no-one is more special than any other. Which brings us to the “Special Relationship”.
When two people catch a glimpse of each other’s beauty, we often get a feeling that the relationship will fulfill our emptiness and we clutch onto the other person. Initially you might have extraordinary times, but the core on which such relationships are built, is simply your “thought” that you are not complete and that you NEED another to complete you. It is for this reason that when such relationships change form (traditionally known as ending the relationship), that lots of pain is experienced. Release your partner and all people in your life every moment. This is one of the principles to fulfilling relationships.
When you wish the other person their freedom and have faith that the relationship will serve both of you, for your spiritual growth, beautiful things come to fruition. Set them free every moment of the day and have the knowing that the purpose of the relationship is to create opportunities for you to “show up” and be the most glorious, most amazing person you know you are. This includes forgiving, not judging, showing compassion and loving unconditionally.
Relationships have nothing to do with the other person. Knowing this puts you in a powerful place where you have control over how you feel and who you are going to be in the relationship. Initially there will be bliss and lots of joy, followed by opportunities to work on your soul. I once read that you ask for God to send you the perfect partner, but instead he sends you something much better – someone slightly less than what you expected. See the relationship as a sacred space where you can grow. Your soul knows that you will slowly re-member your magnificence and uses romantic relationships to show us that.
We see that so often by being told my our loved ones how amazing we are, just to remind us of our soul’s natural state – perfection. Perfection does not mean you will not experience heartache, sadness or some of the less pleasing experiences, but it does mean that you are wonderful as you are and need not change a thing. Play fully – every moment of the way. Open your heart and love without bounds. When you open your heart completely and love another without conditions, people see the perfect person you are and get a glimpse of the God within you. Do not be afraid of rejection of any kind, because remember rejection does not mean anything is “wrong” with you, it is just a choice the other soul makes on it’s journey. You are complete and perfect by design and need not chance a thing about you to be loved – just love others and you will experience love.
This lesson places lots of emphasis on judgment. When we find someone and label the relationship as “Special”, so easily we place expectations on that person: “Will he call by 6?” or “Will she like what I got her?”. We place too much emphasis on the “form” of the relationship and less on the “content”.
A holy relationship is intimate, has authenticity, and allows freedom for the souls to grow. You need not be in a Romantic Relationship in order to experience intimacy. Your best friend allows you to cry when you wish to do so and he/she does not judge you for being sad. Consider being that to your Romantic Partner, allowing them the freedom to be anyway and know they are loved, irrespective of what space they are in on that day. Are your needs met? You have no “needs” for you have it all. You are whole and complete, filled with pure love. Consider that you have no lack and by doing so, you have no needs. You might have some things you wish to experience, but experiencing them could be with anyone, not only your Romantic Partner. Our generation has separated ourselves from God. “Separated from God” does not mean we are ignoring the entity called “God”, but instead, it means we have removed ourselves from the “knowing” that we are all love. That we are all connected, all beings, all elements and all that exists are one energy source called “God”, experienced as LOVE.
We can regain that consciousness by loving every being, every element and all opportunities that crosses our path – equally.
Meeting someone so attractive, so beautiful. Your heart beats like the rhythm at the races and your knees become Jell-O.
We all know this feeling of falling in love and seeing the amazing beauty in another. Couples fall in love blissfully and fall out of it with such heartache. Love does not have to be so difficult and as we all have grown to learn, you get out of something what you put into it. But there is a thin line to keep an eye on here. Our minds have grown to make us believe that we are “not complete”; “unfulfilled” or “unloved”, until we meet the love of our life. This was the mind talking (also known as the Ego), not our soul.
Your soul knows that you are complete, an extraordinary being, a creations of God. A creations of God being a creation of love. Innately, inside of you, you are pure love and our Ego is here to challenge that. Only when you love like God loves, you will experience the fulfilled life that we call “heaven”. God loves all equally, no-one is more special than any other. Which brings us to the “Special Relationship”.
When two people catch a glimpse of each other’s beauty, we often get a feeling that the relationship will fulfil our emptiness and we clutch onto the other person. Initially you might have extraordinary times, but the core on which such relationships are built, is simply your “thought” that you are not complete and that you NEED another to complete you. It is for this reason that when such relationships change form (traditionally known as ending the relationship), that lots of pain is experienced. Release your partner and all people in your life every moment. This is one of the principles to fulfilling relationships.
When you wish the other person their freedom and have faith that the relationship will serve both of you, for your spiritual growth, beautiful things come to fruition. Set them free every moment of the day and have the knowing that the purpose of the relationship is to create opportunities for you to “show up” and be the most glorious, most amazing person you know you are. This includes forgiving, not judging, showing compassion and loving unconditionally.
Relationships have nothing to do with the other person. Knowing this puts you in a powerful place where you have control over how you feel and who you are going to be in the relationship. Initially there will be bliss and lots of joy, followed by opportunities to work on your soul. I once read that you ask for God to send you the perfect partner, but instead he sends you something much better – someone slightly less than what you expected. See the relationship as a sacred space where you can grow. Your soul knows that you will slowly re-member your magnificence and uses romantic relationships to show us that.
We see that so often by being told my our loved ones how amazing we are, just to remind us of our soul’s natural state – perfection. Perfection does not mean you will not experience heartache, sadness or some of the less pleasing experiences, but it does mean that you are wonderful as you are and need not change a thing. Play fully – every moment of the way.
Open your heart and love without bounds. When you open your heart completely and love another without conditions, people see the perfect person you are and get a glimpse of the God within you. Do not be afraid of rejection of any kind, because remember rejection does not mean anything is “wrong” with you, it is just a choice the other soul makes on it’s journey. You are complete and perfect by design and need not chance a thing about you to be loved – just love others and you will experience love.
This lesson places lots of emphasis on judgment. When we find someone and label the relationship as “Special”, so easily we place expectations on that person: “Will he call by 6?” or “Will she like what I got her?”. We place too much emphasis on the “form” of the relationship and less on the “content”.
A holy relationship is intimate, has authenticity, and allows freedom for the souls to grow. You need not be in a Romantic Relationship in order to experience intimacy. Your best friend allows you to cry when you wish to do so and he/she does not judge you for being sad. Consider being that to your Romantic Partner, allowing them the freedom to be anyway and know they are loved, irrespective of what space they are in on that day. Are your needs met? You have no “needs” for you have it all. You are whole and complete, filled with pure love.
Consider that you have no lack and by doing so, you have no needs. You might have some things you wish to experience, but experiencing them could be with anyone, not only your Romantic Partner. Our generation has separated ourselves from God. “Separated from God” does not mean we are ignoring the entity called “God”, but instead, it means we have removed ourselves from the “knowing” that we are all love. That we are all connected, all beings, all elements and all that exists are one energy source called “God”, experienced as LOVE.
We can regain that consciousness by loving every being, every element and all opportunities that crosses our path – equally.
About The Author
Justin Luyt, the author of "The Spirit of Romance" has been consulting and training individuals and corporations for over 10 years. He has build a successful Romance Coaching practice at [http://www.RomanceCoaching.biz] as well as released his latest book in 2004 - "The Spirit of Romance", which is now available at [http://www.Romance-IT.com]. 1-877-ROMANCE
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Monday, January 25, 2010
Is Living in Together the Right Decision to Do?
Living in together is a very delicate matter to discuss. Some are really against it while some tolerate it. I was warned about writing an article about living in together because some people are very sensitive to these kinds of issues. As a relationship coach, living in together is not a new thing. I know one couple who has been living in together for as long as I can remember. Getting married is not an issue for them as long as they know where they stand; they trust each other enough to be on the bound of holy matrimony. They said they want to be together because they love and are committed with each other, they don't want the constraint and pressure marriage life brings.
Cohabitation is not for everyone. They say that women are in the losing end in this kind of situation. Personally, I don't agree with this, I believe in a woman's capacity to make a decision and they will never choose to be in a situation where they end up as the losing end. They say that living in together increases the risk of divorce or create a high level of unhappiness for couples. Others say that it breeds contempt. I have coached marriage couples and cohabitating lovers and I noticed that both sets of couples encounter the same relationship issues, except that some cohabitating lovers discussed about getting in to marriage while the married couple sometimes discussed about getting out of it.
They say that the difference between being married and cohabitating is the sense of security. I beg to disagree with this; marriage should not be the basis of your sense of security. If you expect that in marriage you will achieve the security you seek then you are heading for the greatest disappointment of you life, maybe you can get financial security but then again there are pre-nuptial agreements Sense of security is a personal matter; you should have this in or out of marriage. Some lovers chose living together before marriage because they want to make sure that they are compatible enough and they are aware that there are things they can only discover when they are living together under one roof.
Some couples would rather risk the consequences of living together before marriage than be trapped in mistake and go through a nasty divorce. Whether you decide to be married or cohabitate, you and your lover should discuss your expectations, goals and level of commitment in your relationship. The success of a relationship wholly depends on the couples degree of commitment and communication, not the status of their relationship... and besides who are we to judge when it comes to matters of the heart.
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a Relationship Expert who has been successfully coaching individuals and couples in their relationships. Get A Copy of her sensational ebook on Winning Over Infidelity. Experience a Happier Love Life.
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Cohabitation is not for everyone. They say that women are in the losing end in this kind of situation. Personally, I don't agree with this, I believe in a woman's capacity to make a decision and they will never choose to be in a situation where they end up as the losing end. They say that living in together increases the risk of divorce or create a high level of unhappiness for couples. Others say that it breeds contempt. I have coached marriage couples and cohabitating lovers and I noticed that both sets of couples encounter the same relationship issues, except that some cohabitating lovers discussed about getting in to marriage while the married couple sometimes discussed about getting out of it.
They say that the difference between being married and cohabitating is the sense of security. I beg to disagree with this; marriage should not be the basis of your sense of security. If you expect that in marriage you will achieve the security you seek then you are heading for the greatest disappointment of you life, maybe you can get financial security but then again there are pre-nuptial agreements Sense of security is a personal matter; you should have this in or out of marriage. Some lovers chose living together before marriage because they want to make sure that they are compatible enough and they are aware that there are things they can only discover when they are living together under one roof.
Some couples would rather risk the consequences of living together before marriage than be trapped in mistake and go through a nasty divorce. Whether you decide to be married or cohabitate, you and your lover should discuss your expectations, goals and level of commitment in your relationship. The success of a relationship wholly depends on the couples degree of commitment and communication, not the status of their relationship... and besides who are we to judge when it comes to matters of the heart.
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a Relationship Expert who has been successfully coaching individuals and couples in their relationships. Get A Copy of her sensational ebook on Winning Over Infidelity. Experience a Happier Love Life.
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5 Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Meet Your Soulmate
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Moms Advice on Love and Relationships
If there's one human being who loves us unconditionally and profoundly, it's our mom. They know us more than anybody else; we may think that they don't but actually they really do. We may sometimes find their pampering over the top or at times annoying but hey, they are made for that, and they can't help it.
As a relationship coach, my mom's wisdom and good example has a big influence. So in this article, I am going to share my mom's advice on love and relationships. This happened during my teenage years, though I can't relate but I'm sure this is one of the toughest stages to get through to a child but somehow my mom never run out of tricks to get her insights on me.
It was a good moment because what she told me lived inside me and I'm sure it will remain inside me; my mom gave me her advice on love and relationships. She told me "Ruth, sooner or later you are going to fall inlove and that is a good thing and I will be the happiest mom in the world if you can find that somebody to love no matter what and that same somebody who will do the same to you." I asked her- "How will I know if I am inlove?" I was expecting the ever elusive answer to this question "you will know when it's there" but my mom gave me specifics.
"You can only say you are truly in love when you know how you want your eggs and coffee done and why." "But I don't drink coffee yet, mom." She answered. "If you're old enough to drink coffee, then you are capable enough to say that it is true and real love." "It doesn't mean that if you think of that person 24/7 you are inlove. There are tons of reasons why you get to think of that person constantly, he may have a great smile and sparkling blue eyes or he smells good and he has attractive wavy hair that goes along with his beautifully tanned skin." "If these are the reason that makes you inlove, have you ever asked yourself what if those great smile and sparkling teeth are replaced with cheap dentures? And those sparkling blue eyes will be covered with thick high grade glasses and he will soon smell like soap and those wavy locks and tanned skin will soon wilt away.
Will you still feel the same?" my mom said looking straight in my eyes while giving her advice on love. "What I'm telling you my dear is that I need you to figure yourself out first. I need you to discover how precious and special you are before you decide to share yourself to that deserving person." She continued her advice on love. "...because if you know deep inside that you are very special person then you will attract that same kind of person- a very loving and deserving person who will make you fall but will not allow you to forget yourself- a person who will always be happy to see you taking care and taking charge of your life... and that same person will hurt you and make you cry but will not make you lose your faith with each other.
This is my advice on love to you- to have faith in yourself and your man but you have to know and discover who you are first. Decide what it is you want your life and the universe will give you that suitable person to fit in your life. Don't force time or yourself, love will come to you- the universe provides and its timing is always impeccable." My mom says in conclusion. So, how about you? Do you how you want your eggs and coffee done and why?
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a Relationship Expert who has been successfully coaching individuals and couples in their relationships. Get A Copy of her sensational ebook on Winning Over Infidelity. Experience a Happier Love Life.
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As a relationship coach, my mom's wisdom and good example has a big influence. So in this article, I am going to share my mom's advice on love and relationships. This happened during my teenage years, though I can't relate but I'm sure this is one of the toughest stages to get through to a child but somehow my mom never run out of tricks to get her insights on me.
It was a good moment because what she told me lived inside me and I'm sure it will remain inside me; my mom gave me her advice on love and relationships. She told me "Ruth, sooner or later you are going to fall inlove and that is a good thing and I will be the happiest mom in the world if you can find that somebody to love no matter what and that same somebody who will do the same to you." I asked her- "How will I know if I am inlove?" I was expecting the ever elusive answer to this question "you will know when it's there" but my mom gave me specifics.
"You can only say you are truly in love when you know how you want your eggs and coffee done and why." "But I don't drink coffee yet, mom." She answered. "If you're old enough to drink coffee, then you are capable enough to say that it is true and real love." "It doesn't mean that if you think of that person 24/7 you are inlove. There are tons of reasons why you get to think of that person constantly, he may have a great smile and sparkling blue eyes or he smells good and he has attractive wavy hair that goes along with his beautifully tanned skin." "If these are the reason that makes you inlove, have you ever asked yourself what if those great smile and sparkling teeth are replaced with cheap dentures? And those sparkling blue eyes will be covered with thick high grade glasses and he will soon smell like soap and those wavy locks and tanned skin will soon wilt away.
Will you still feel the same?" my mom said looking straight in my eyes while giving her advice on love. "What I'm telling you my dear is that I need you to figure yourself out first. I need you to discover how precious and special you are before you decide to share yourself to that deserving person." She continued her advice on love. "...because if you know deep inside that you are very special person then you will attract that same kind of person- a very loving and deserving person who will make you fall but will not allow you to forget yourself- a person who will always be happy to see you taking care and taking charge of your life... and that same person will hurt you and make you cry but will not make you lose your faith with each other.
This is my advice on love to you- to have faith in yourself and your man but you have to know and discover who you are first. Decide what it is you want your life and the universe will give you that suitable person to fit in your life. Don't force time or yourself, love will come to you- the universe provides and its timing is always impeccable." My mom says in conclusion. So, how about you? Do you how you want your eggs and coffee done and why?
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a Relationship Expert who has been successfully coaching individuals and couples in their relationships. Get A Copy of her sensational ebook on Winning Over Infidelity. Experience a Happier Love Life.
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How to Know You Have Found Your Ideal Person
When it comes to dating, many people have a hard time figuring out whether or not they have found the ideal person. You might think that a person would automatically know it, and sometimes they do, but so many people are still under the impression that the grass is greener on the other side. Or that special person will just drop from heaven and say I am the one! If you are someone who always tends to think that there is something bigger and better out there, you may never be satisfied until you change your way of thinking.
Here are some questions to ask yourself as you decide whether your partner is ideal for you.
Think about the time that you and your partner spend together. Is there more peace than drama?
Do you experience joy and happiness most of the time you are in each others company.
While you do not have to like everything that the other person does, do you at least have some things in common?
Are both of you able to get along with or at least respect each other's friends?
Do you get on with each others family? Whilst it is not a prerequisite for a successful relationship it helps when there is peace between you and your partner's family.
Do you agree or at least have an understanding on the fundamentals of a future life together e.g whether you want to have children or not. the number of children you will have, how you will raise them, where you will live - would you be happy if you have to relocate to another country because of your partner? how to handle your finances etchese are some. These are some of the things that can cause major problems in a relationship when they are not addressed in the early stages of your relationship.
Religion and your spirtual understanding is another area to assess. Is there mutual respect of each others beliefs?
Are you open and transparent with one another. Is there a free flow communication between you? When you are able to communicate with someone freely it is a good sign of having of a healthy relationship
There are no secrets between you to the best of your knowledge
Have you found that you are both more concerned about the feelings and well being of their other person than your own
If you have answered yes to these few questions, you may have very well found the ideal person for you.
The key though is to make sure that you are not jumping into things too quickly. Just because you may have found Mr. or Miss Right does not mean that the while thing could not be ruined by simply jumping into an engagement or wedding too fast. You want to make sure that you are taking your time and that you are allowing the relationship to naturally blossom. Of course, there are some relationships that move very fast and are a success, but those are far and few between so you want to be careful with moving fast with the relationship.
If that special person allows that time to happen, you have found a catch. Do not believe that just because someone is being pushy about marriage that they must be the ideal catch for you. You want someone that will respect your space because once you are married, you are certainly going to need some of that from time to time.
Another thing to remember is that what may define the ideal person for one individual may not be the ideal type of person for another. Everyone is different so it is important to make sure that you are listening to your heart, and not the heart of everyone else. When you do this, you will have a much better shot at making sure that you find and hold onto the right person when you find him or her. Just relax and before you know it you will be in the arms of the perfect person for you and you will see just how much it was worth the wait.
To gain more insights and tips on dating and relationships visit http://www.singlesstreetlife.com.
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Here are some questions to ask yourself as you decide whether your partner is ideal for you.
Think about the time that you and your partner spend together. Is there more peace than drama?
Do you experience joy and happiness most of the time you are in each others company.
While you do not have to like everything that the other person does, do you at least have some things in common?
Are both of you able to get along with or at least respect each other's friends?
Do you get on with each others family? Whilst it is not a prerequisite for a successful relationship it helps when there is peace between you and your partner's family.
Do you agree or at least have an understanding on the fundamentals of a future life together e.g whether you want to have children or not. the number of children you will have, how you will raise them, where you will live - would you be happy if you have to relocate to another country because of your partner? how to handle your finances etchese are some. These are some of the things that can cause major problems in a relationship when they are not addressed in the early stages of your relationship.
Religion and your spirtual understanding is another area to assess. Is there mutual respect of each others beliefs?
Are you open and transparent with one another. Is there a free flow communication between you? When you are able to communicate with someone freely it is a good sign of having of a healthy relationship
There are no secrets between you to the best of your knowledge
Have you found that you are both more concerned about the feelings and well being of their other person than your own
If you have answered yes to these few questions, you may have very well found the ideal person for you.
The key though is to make sure that you are not jumping into things too quickly. Just because you may have found Mr. or Miss Right does not mean that the while thing could not be ruined by simply jumping into an engagement or wedding too fast. You want to make sure that you are taking your time and that you are allowing the relationship to naturally blossom. Of course, there are some relationships that move very fast and are a success, but those are far and few between so you want to be careful with moving fast with the relationship.
If that special person allows that time to happen, you have found a catch. Do not believe that just because someone is being pushy about marriage that they must be the ideal catch for you. You want someone that will respect your space because once you are married, you are certainly going to need some of that from time to time.
Another thing to remember is that what may define the ideal person for one individual may not be the ideal type of person for another. Everyone is different so it is important to make sure that you are listening to your heart, and not the heart of everyone else. When you do this, you will have a much better shot at making sure that you find and hold onto the right person when you find him or her. Just relax and before you know it you will be in the arms of the perfect person for you and you will see just how much it was worth the wait.
To gain more insights and tips on dating and relationships visit http://www.singlesstreetlife.com.
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Relationship Questions to Ask Your Lover in the First Three Months
Does your lover know the difference between love, romance and sex? This is one of many relationship questions to ask your lover. The more you ask, the better you will know them. Some of the questions are simple yet fun, favorite color, favorite foods, music, etc. Some will be awkward like the first question. One thing for sure, you'll know whether to move forward with the relationship or not depending on how these are answered.
It's very important to find out what they enjoy doing and how they spend their free time. Do they want to spend every minute with you or will they need a lot of alone time. Some of the relationship questions to ask your lover should be about money, career plans,and lifestyle interests. The sooner you find out what you have in common the better for the both of you.
As the relationship questions to ask your lover come up for conversation, the personality of your mate will expose itself, at times with feelings and emotions when you least expect it. Answering the questions will help to build and bind together the relationship. The relationship solidifies quicker as you communicate with each other and find the many things you agree on and have in common. If this is not the case and is not going so well, then you will know to cut your losses quicker and move on. Don't avoid the rather invasive questions you feel you need to ask. You might get the positive results that you have always dreamed of. Some will appreciate you being upfront with them and each opportunity will show more of yourself also.
You can categorize the relationship questions to ask your lover. Some are more casual and fun, some pertain to health, family and career choices. You can make little quizzes or questionnaires out of them or sneak a few in every once in a while whenever you're together. Of course, you will have domestic concerns, also maybe about religion or the sex and romance part. These questions should help you to build a strong relationship and be able to communicate comfortably with each other about any topic. Most any well thought out question will work, though. It's learning to trust each other and answering honestly and respectfully that will set the pace for the relationship. So, don't be shy. Start with the fun easy ones first and as you develop confidence you will notice the others slide right in by themselves.
Sanno Zaye reveals more answers at the Relationship Advice Site.
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It's very important to find out what they enjoy doing and how they spend their free time. Do they want to spend every minute with you or will they need a lot of alone time. Some of the relationship questions to ask your lover should be about money, career plans,and lifestyle interests. The sooner you find out what you have in common the better for the both of you.
As the relationship questions to ask your lover come up for conversation, the personality of your mate will expose itself, at times with feelings and emotions when you least expect it. Answering the questions will help to build and bind together the relationship. The relationship solidifies quicker as you communicate with each other and find the many things you agree on and have in common. If this is not the case and is not going so well, then you will know to cut your losses quicker and move on. Don't avoid the rather invasive questions you feel you need to ask. You might get the positive results that you have always dreamed of. Some will appreciate you being upfront with them and each opportunity will show more of yourself also.
You can categorize the relationship questions to ask your lover. Some are more casual and fun, some pertain to health, family and career choices. You can make little quizzes or questionnaires out of them or sneak a few in every once in a while whenever you're together. Of course, you will have domestic concerns, also maybe about religion or the sex and romance part. These questions should help you to build a strong relationship and be able to communicate comfortably with each other about any topic. Most any well thought out question will work, though. It's learning to trust each other and answering honestly and respectfully that will set the pace for the relationship. So, don't be shy. Start with the fun easy ones first and as you develop confidence you will notice the others slide right in by themselves.
Sanno Zaye reveals more answers at the Relationship Advice Site.
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Live, Love, Laugh, and Luxuriate - The Cosmic Call of the Hour
A momentous challenge lies before you. You are inhaling the next vital breath of your pertinent life and with it, ingesting those things that truly matter. Your life is a direct reflection of the delegated compartments of which you have specifically ordered. Nothing is out of order and nothing is amiss. This is your carefully chosen, executively administered and precisely ordained cosmic existence.
You are, at this moment, specifically and completely 'full of all of the comprising components' {situations, events, circumstances}, intergraded ingredients {people, places, things,} and multi-layered elements {emotions, thoughts, actions, reactions}' that have ever existed since the beginning of time. Not one grain of sand has been misplaced from the ocean of your reality. Nothing exists outside of your personal domain or extended boundaries for which you erroneously believe you must strive and compete to attain.. You have precisely and exactly what you want in the exact way you want it. No exceptions. This is it! This is a good as it gets, period.
Further more, you never been separated from the origin and essence of who you are, or from the ones who truly mirror your soul. You are vibrating at the exact frequency relative to your swirling motion of events. How could it be otherwise? You are an intensely creative vibrant sensual sexual creature who is imbued with enormous potential and radiating attraction. The question set before you, now: Why are you bemoaning your lot? What you are aware of, if you are conscious of any aspect of your life, is the dawning, pervading sense of urgency to 'seize the moment.' It is up to you to see through the false charade your eyes present as a means of distraction and constant dissatisfaction. "Don't let your eyes betray you." It's time to get on with the program of pleasure filled artistic physical living!
You inhabit a body, on earth and the suggested regimented menu for this planet is to: live, love, laugh and luxuriate. That's the deal for real. When engaged in the passion of your specific soul's agenda, you can do no harm. In fact, you can possibly spread a little happiness and good cheer along the way. Who knows? Anything is possible. It's the unmistakable call of the hour to live your dreams in fullest of expanded ways. No holding back. You are taking up residence in the most luxurious vacation paradise in the galaxy. Will you release the barricaded resistance you so cautiously maintain to meet yourself in the moment of season's radical change? By realizing the enormous germinating power locked within each breath you take, you will soar like a celebrated eagle.
Or you could choose to remain stiff, boring, unmotivated and down right unattractive. Where's your sense of universal adventure? Where are the exotic and unexplored sensual escapades? You have been hiding your alluring nature way too long. Get on with the program of living fully, passionately, sexually and artistically? Why not? What do you have to lose except the dull and monotonous angry existence you uphold? It's high time for you to make your effective non duplicated productive contribution to earth.
Cosmic Therapist, Author, Artist, Entertainer, Teacher, Speaker, Singer/Songwriter. Married 39 years with 6 children and 11 grandchildren and a native of North Carolina.
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You are, at this moment, specifically and completely 'full of all of the comprising components' {situations, events, circumstances}, intergraded ingredients {people, places, things,} and multi-layered elements {emotions, thoughts, actions, reactions}' that have ever existed since the beginning of time. Not one grain of sand has been misplaced from the ocean of your reality. Nothing exists outside of your personal domain or extended boundaries for which you erroneously believe you must strive and compete to attain.. You have precisely and exactly what you want in the exact way you want it. No exceptions. This is it! This is a good as it gets, period.
Further more, you never been separated from the origin and essence of who you are, or from the ones who truly mirror your soul. You are vibrating at the exact frequency relative to your swirling motion of events. How could it be otherwise? You are an intensely creative vibrant sensual sexual creature who is imbued with enormous potential and radiating attraction. The question set before you, now: Why are you bemoaning your lot? What you are aware of, if you are conscious of any aspect of your life, is the dawning, pervading sense of urgency to 'seize the moment.' It is up to you to see through the false charade your eyes present as a means of distraction and constant dissatisfaction. "Don't let your eyes betray you." It's time to get on with the program of pleasure filled artistic physical living!
You inhabit a body, on earth and the suggested regimented menu for this planet is to: live, love, laugh and luxuriate. That's the deal for real. When engaged in the passion of your specific soul's agenda, you can do no harm. In fact, you can possibly spread a little happiness and good cheer along the way. Who knows? Anything is possible. It's the unmistakable call of the hour to live your dreams in fullest of expanded ways. No holding back. You are taking up residence in the most luxurious vacation paradise in the galaxy. Will you release the barricaded resistance you so cautiously maintain to meet yourself in the moment of season's radical change? By realizing the enormous germinating power locked within each breath you take, you will soar like a celebrated eagle.
Or you could choose to remain stiff, boring, unmotivated and down right unattractive. Where's your sense of universal adventure? Where are the exotic and unexplored sensual escapades? You have been hiding your alluring nature way too long. Get on with the program of living fully, passionately, sexually and artistically? Why not? What do you have to lose except the dull and monotonous angry existence you uphold? It's high time for you to make your effective non duplicated productive contribution to earth.
Cosmic Therapist, Author, Artist, Entertainer, Teacher, Speaker, Singer/Songwriter. Married 39 years with 6 children and 11 grandchildren and a native of North Carolina.
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Tuesday, January 12, 2010
Asian women and western men - What's the attraction?
Young and mature Asian women are increasingly becoming a popular choice for western men to partner with. Many Asian cultures for females lend themselves to a submissive type role within relationships and some men find this quality appealing whereby their wife makes the husband the centre of all priorities. So what makes western men appealing for Asian girls that are seemingly cueing up to marry a westerner?
The number of Asian girls looking to marry foreign men out weighs the opposite scenario. This has been the case for decades as young and older Asian females seek a better life than the third world conditions they are accustomed to. Westerners are seen by Asian women as wealthy and have the means to financially and emotionally support them.
Over 85 percent of citizens in countries such as China, Thailand and the Philippines live in poverty and are barely able to support their families. Marrying a westerner can often be the answer to their financially difficulties. Many young Asian girls will move to different countries to marry western men leaving their families behind so they can support them through their husbands in a pre-arranged agreement.
Unfortunately this also leads to a high rate of abuse for many Asian women who are single and fending for themselves within their own countries. Prostitution is rife and young desperate Asian girls face daily abuse at the hands of certain western men that would never be tolerated in first world countries. Governments in countries such as China and Thailand turn a blind eye to the abuse knowing that it is the only way many can survive financially with some third world countries in Asia facing 80 percent unemployment.
Invading western armies during world wars is how much of the Asian marriage and prostitution culture began. This culture is only growing as poverty is the only life many know and sadly many Asian girls will be forced to live as prostitutes or will leave their families for years and move to a foreign country to marry. This isn't to say that women in Asian countries cant live a life outside this culture. As normal western culture is increasingly influencing Asian societies, Asian single women are finding opportunities within their own countries to become independent - Which is a good thing! The internet is helping Asian women find foreign men. There are dating sites for single Asian women and girls specifically set up for marrying foreigners.
This allows women to assess their potential husbands before meeting in person and is also considered safer than simply flying to another country to marry a total stranger. Meeting a foreigner online allows the chance for their potential husband to be checked out more thoroughly than conventional means to see if they stack up financially. It is not uncommon for a foreign man to make a substantial down payment before their new wife marry's them.
Relationships article about the attraction with western men and Asian women. Website Single-Women provides dating websites for men and single girls & guys who are looking for relationships and friendships online.
The number of Asian girls looking to marry foreign men out weighs the opposite scenario. This has been the case for decades as young and older Asian females seek a better life than the third world conditions they are accustomed to. Westerners are seen by Asian women as wealthy and have the means to financially and emotionally support them.
Over 85 percent of citizens in countries such as China, Thailand and the Philippines live in poverty and are barely able to support their families. Marrying a westerner can often be the answer to their financially difficulties. Many young Asian girls will move to different countries to marry western men leaving their families behind so they can support them through their husbands in a pre-arranged agreement.
Unfortunately this also leads to a high rate of abuse for many Asian women who are single and fending for themselves within their own countries. Prostitution is rife and young desperate Asian girls face daily abuse at the hands of certain western men that would never be tolerated in first world countries. Governments in countries such as China and Thailand turn a blind eye to the abuse knowing that it is the only way many can survive financially with some third world countries in Asia facing 80 percent unemployment.
Invading western armies during world wars is how much of the Asian marriage and prostitution culture began. This culture is only growing as poverty is the only life many know and sadly many Asian girls will be forced to live as prostitutes or will leave their families for years and move to a foreign country to marry. This isn't to say that women in Asian countries cant live a life outside this culture. As normal western culture is increasingly influencing Asian societies, Asian single women are finding opportunities within their own countries to become independent - Which is a good thing! The internet is helping Asian women find foreign men. There are dating sites for single Asian women and girls specifically set up for marrying foreigners.
This allows women to assess their potential husbands before meeting in person and is also considered safer than simply flying to another country to marry a total stranger. Meeting a foreigner online allows the chance for their potential husband to be checked out more thoroughly than conventional means to see if they stack up financially. It is not uncommon for a foreign man to make a substantial down payment before their new wife marry's them.
Relationships article about the attraction with western men and Asian women. Website Single-Women provides dating websites for men and single girls & guys who are looking for relationships and friendships online.
How to Know If Your Man Loves You - 4 Signs He's Head Over Heels Crazy About You
Having you been wondering how to know if your man loves you? Secretly most women have at some point in their relationship. Men aren't always as quick to proclaim their undying love and devotion as we are. Often, a woman will be ready to tell a man she loves him but will hesitate out of fear of not knowing exactly what he's feeling for her. If your guy has yet to utter those three all important words to you, there are ways to know that he does love you, even if he can't muster up the courage to say it quite yet.
Some of the ways to know if your man loves you include:
* He'll want to see you as much as possible.
When a man has fallen for a woman she's the only thing he can think about. He'll do everything in his power to spend time with her. He doesn't think twice about driving across town to spend just five minutes with her. Men in love don't search for excuses as to why they can't see you. They want to see you and will try and extend their time with you at every opportunity.
* He'll call and text you often.
Men in love crave the sound of their woman's voice. They call, often, just to say hi and to see how your day is going. They don't avoid your calls and if they do happen to miss one, they return it as soon as possible. If your guy exhibits this behavior, he's hooked.
* You know his family and close friends.
This is one sign of a man in love that most women completely overlook. When we start dating a new guy we typically don't see a problem with introducing him to everyone we know. Men are a bit more reserved when it comes to this part of the relationship dynamic. They'll typically save introductions for women they feel emotionally connected to. This is especially true of their parents and siblings. If you know his mom and dad or you've spent time with his brother or sisters, he's fallen in love with you.
* He talks more about you than himself.
Before a man falls in love, his favorite topic of conversation tends to be himself. That changes the moment he feels close to a woman. He wants to know every small detail there is to know about her and he'll continually steer their discussions back to her. You should feel flattered if your guy wants to know what your favorite ice cream is or when you learned to ride a bike. He craves information about you because he loves you.
If you notice any of these signs in your relationship, your guy is already hooked. Never lose sight of the fact that a man's actions will often say much more than his words.
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Some of the ways to know if your man loves you include:
* He'll want to see you as much as possible.
When a man has fallen for a woman she's the only thing he can think about. He'll do everything in his power to spend time with her. He doesn't think twice about driving across town to spend just five minutes with her. Men in love don't search for excuses as to why they can't see you. They want to see you and will try and extend their time with you at every opportunity.
* He'll call and text you often.
Men in love crave the sound of their woman's voice. They call, often, just to say hi and to see how your day is going. They don't avoid your calls and if they do happen to miss one, they return it as soon as possible. If your guy exhibits this behavior, he's hooked.
* You know his family and close friends.
This is one sign of a man in love that most women completely overlook. When we start dating a new guy we typically don't see a problem with introducing him to everyone we know. Men are a bit more reserved when it comes to this part of the relationship dynamic. They'll typically save introductions for women they feel emotionally connected to. This is especially true of their parents and siblings. If you know his mom and dad or you've spent time with his brother or sisters, he's fallen in love with you.
* He talks more about you than himself.
Before a man falls in love, his favorite topic of conversation tends to be himself. That changes the moment he feels close to a woman. He wants to know every small detail there is to know about her and he'll continually steer their discussions back to her. You should feel flattered if your guy wants to know what your favorite ice cream is or when you learned to ride a bike. He craves information about you because he loves you.
If you notice any of these signs in your relationship, your guy is already hooked. Never lose sight of the fact that a man's actions will often say much more than his words.
Learn how any woman can make her man fall in love with her. Click here to get your man to fall head over heels for you.
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Is it Possible to Make a Guy Fall in Love?
Do you sit back and wait for your dream guy to fall out of the sky? Do you wonder why your relationships with guys always end at "just friends"? Do you want to be more proactive in making a guy fall in love with you? A lot of women believe that mister perfect somehow magically find her and sweep her off her feet. You cannot force a guy to love you, but there are some strategies you can use that will push him in the right direction. If you are tired of being passive and waiting for a man, then keep reading to learn what steps you can take to ensure that your relationships reach their full potential.
Appeal to his nature
Men are protectors; it is hard-wired into their nature. When a guy looks out for you, it satisfies him in ways that often he is not even quite aware of. Women today are more independent than ever and are quite capable of living comfortably on their own. Even if you fall in that category, it is important that you show the guys that have some dependence on them.
Even the little things go a long way. Ask him to help you around the house. Let him change your oil. Allow him to drive you around town. The most important thing is that you let him be the man. Remember that men protect things which are precious to them. Allowing yourself to become precious to him is the first step to making a guy fall in love you.
Nurture his ego
A man's confidence is a fragile thing. Although your guy may seem cocky or smug, he is in constant need of reassurance and respect. A guy's pride means everything to him, and no guy will want to be with a girl that wreaks havoc with his self-esteem. The opposite is also true. If a guy is at his peak of self-confidence when he is around you, then you will find that he will be around you a lot.
There are a lot of little things that you can do to make a guy feel better about whom he is. Laugh at his jokes no matter how lame they are. If he is terrible in bed, don't mention it. Allow him to show you off to his guy friends and family. Remind him often about what sets him apart from other guys in your mind. Once his confidence in himself is stable, then he will have more confidence in beginning a deeper relationship with you.
To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.
This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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Appeal to his nature
Men are protectors; it is hard-wired into their nature. When a guy looks out for you, it satisfies him in ways that often he is not even quite aware of. Women today are more independent than ever and are quite capable of living comfortably on their own. Even if you fall in that category, it is important that you show the guys that have some dependence on them.
Even the little things go a long way. Ask him to help you around the house. Let him change your oil. Allow him to drive you around town. The most important thing is that you let him be the man. Remember that men protect things which are precious to them. Allowing yourself to become precious to him is the first step to making a guy fall in love you.
Nurture his ego
A man's confidence is a fragile thing. Although your guy may seem cocky or smug, he is in constant need of reassurance and respect. A guy's pride means everything to him, and no guy will want to be with a girl that wreaks havoc with his self-esteem. The opposite is also true. If a guy is at his peak of self-confidence when he is around you, then you will find that he will be around you a lot.
There are a lot of little things that you can do to make a guy feel better about whom he is. Laugh at his jokes no matter how lame they are. If he is terrible in bed, don't mention it. Allow him to show you off to his guy friends and family. Remind him often about what sets him apart from other guys in your mind. Once his confidence in himself is stable, then he will have more confidence in beginning a deeper relationship with you.
To learn more, click Fall in Love and learn Love Mistakes that 99% of women make without knowing.
This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com
7 Save Marriage Tips - If Your Marriage is in Trouble, Read This Now
What is going wrong with your marriage? How do you fix it? How are you supposed to take control of the situation and turn it around? If these thoughts keep going through your mind, don't worry - things are probably not as bad as they seem.
When we're afraid of the worst, it is always hard to see any good. These 7 save marriage tips will help you to shed some light on your marriage problems, and will help you to save your troubled marriage.
1. The first thing you should do is take a stand. You know that your marriage is in trouble, although you may not know the reason right now. This is why you're looking for save marriage tips - to find out how to fix whatever is going wrong. When a marriage is in trouble, both partners often shy away from making the first move to fix things. How is your marriage supposed to improve if nobody does anything?
2. If you start to show your spouse the stress and tension that you're feeling, he or she may back away more. They may try to run from the pressure. It is important that you stay as calm as possible. Nothing ever gets fixed when you stay tense - it is only when we make ourselves calm that we can think clearly enough to solve problems.
3. Even married couples need their space. Are you crowding each other? Is one of you hounding the other one, or nagging? The two of you should have your own down time, doing things that you each like to do. This will help to ease some of the tension and still keep you together.
4. Remember that a marriage is a partnership - two people combined as one, to evenly share responsibilities. Instead of one person making all of the decisions, you should both have a say in them. If you don't agree, that's ok. marriage is all about compromise - you're not supposed to agree all of the time. When you both bend a little bit, you will see that alot of the tension will disappear from your marriage.
5. How well do you know each other? Maybe you should spend some time learning more about each other. Talk about your favorite hobbies, or find something out about each other that you don't know. People change over time, and so do interests. Maybe you'll find out something you've never known about your spouse!
6. Save the complaining for big things. Let the little things slide, the best that you can. This can be difficult at first, but it gets easier, the more you do it. Not everything has to become an argument. Like in the old movies - a 'yes dear' or something to that effect works well in evading an argument.
7. If your spouse has a better job than you, or if they work with alot of the opposite sex, do your very best to not become jealous. Jealousy is a sure relationship killer. Have faith in your spouse - jealousy or envy should never have a role in any relationship, especially a marriage.
These save marriage tips are meant to give you some ideas that you may not have thought of before.
Sometimes looking at things from a different perspective will help to turn things around.
When you are in need of highly effective save marriage tips, here's a little known secret that has helped thousands of people in your situation to save their marriage.
Imagine where you could be in a short while - once again in a happy marriage. It is very possible, and it is easy to do. Visit http://www.stopyourdivorce.info for proven step by step systems that will help you to save your marriage, starting today.
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When we're afraid of the worst, it is always hard to see any good. These 7 save marriage tips will help you to shed some light on your marriage problems, and will help you to save your troubled marriage.
1. The first thing you should do is take a stand. You know that your marriage is in trouble, although you may not know the reason right now. This is why you're looking for save marriage tips - to find out how to fix whatever is going wrong. When a marriage is in trouble, both partners often shy away from making the first move to fix things. How is your marriage supposed to improve if nobody does anything?
2. If you start to show your spouse the stress and tension that you're feeling, he or she may back away more. They may try to run from the pressure. It is important that you stay as calm as possible. Nothing ever gets fixed when you stay tense - it is only when we make ourselves calm that we can think clearly enough to solve problems.
3. Even married couples need their space. Are you crowding each other? Is one of you hounding the other one, or nagging? The two of you should have your own down time, doing things that you each like to do. This will help to ease some of the tension and still keep you together.
4. Remember that a marriage is a partnership - two people combined as one, to evenly share responsibilities. Instead of one person making all of the decisions, you should both have a say in them. If you don't agree, that's ok. marriage is all about compromise - you're not supposed to agree all of the time. When you both bend a little bit, you will see that alot of the tension will disappear from your marriage.
5. How well do you know each other? Maybe you should spend some time learning more about each other. Talk about your favorite hobbies, or find something out about each other that you don't know. People change over time, and so do interests. Maybe you'll find out something you've never known about your spouse!
6. Save the complaining for big things. Let the little things slide, the best that you can. This can be difficult at first, but it gets easier, the more you do it. Not everything has to become an argument. Like in the old movies - a 'yes dear' or something to that effect works well in evading an argument.
7. If your spouse has a better job than you, or if they work with alot of the opposite sex, do your very best to not become jealous. Jealousy is a sure relationship killer. Have faith in your spouse - jealousy or envy should never have a role in any relationship, especially a marriage.
These save marriage tips are meant to give you some ideas that you may not have thought of before.
Sometimes looking at things from a different perspective will help to turn things around.
When you are in need of highly effective save marriage tips, here's a little known secret that has helped thousands of people in your situation to save their marriage.
Imagine where you could be in a short while - once again in a happy marriage. It is very possible, and it is easy to do. Visit http://www.stopyourdivorce.info for proven step by step systems that will help you to save your marriage, starting today.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com
The Marrying Kind
What's your idea of The Marrying Kind? When we pose this question to gal pals, we'd get answers like: "Tall, dark and handsome." "Smart, funny and understanding" "Has a good disposition in life, and isn't afraid to try new things." But have we ever tried to ask what men want. We'd probably think guys can get it on with just about any girl especially one with a skirt below the knees. After all, they're the one's who makes the first move. Hooking up seems like no mean feat for guys. Right...and wrong. Though the courtship ball is on our hand, that doesn't mean they don't spot check among girls.
Guys aren't limited to a "lust" track mind. Look at some dating websites and you'll observe that they often have this idea on their minds "who will I marry?" Men worry about happy-ever-after, too. So, in order to answer this growing question lets see from men's perspective what exactly their ideal of the marrying kind is. For men, the one is a girl who stands out and makes guys fall to their knees, tames their wild side and is most careful to have sex with. It could be because she's the girl whom they'd take seriously or value too highly to loose to recklessness.
Most guys will admit that while girl hunting is fun, it gets tiring at some point. Time comes when they'd prefer an hour's worth of good conversation to a half a day of hardcore romping. That's where the "who will I marry?" comes. Peer pressure can also contribute to our frantic search for the marrying kind. When the boys start finding their own relationships, the Saturday night trips to the bar become few and far between. That's when they realize it's lonely to be alone, and seek a steady partner of their own. We'd often wonder why most guys in their search for the marrying kind, end up going from one girl to another.
As they end up with us, we'd look at him as a man not worthy enough to be taken seriously. However, from a man's perspective, they'd jump from one relationship when they know it's not the right one. They'd stop hopping from one girl to another when they know they've finally found the marrying kind. Guys are often faced with certain what ifs. Ladies and gents, we're actually looking for the same thing. While they dream about a woman worthy enough to be the marrying kind, they date and try to meet her. While we make a mistake and get our hearts broken, they miss the mark and break hearts or get their hearts broken too.
Meeting our perfect match is something we all want. They'd understand that their Ms. Wrong could be someone else's Ms. Right, so up until they find their version of the latter, men keeps searching till they find the marrying kind.
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a Relationship Expert who has been successfully coaching individuals and couples in their relationships. Get A Copy of her sensational ebook on Winning Over Infidelity. Experience a Happier Love Life.
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Guys aren't limited to a "lust" track mind. Look at some dating websites and you'll observe that they often have this idea on their minds "who will I marry?" Men worry about happy-ever-after, too. So, in order to answer this growing question lets see from men's perspective what exactly their ideal of the marrying kind is. For men, the one is a girl who stands out and makes guys fall to their knees, tames their wild side and is most careful to have sex with. It could be because she's the girl whom they'd take seriously or value too highly to loose to recklessness.
Most guys will admit that while girl hunting is fun, it gets tiring at some point. Time comes when they'd prefer an hour's worth of good conversation to a half a day of hardcore romping. That's where the "who will I marry?" comes. Peer pressure can also contribute to our frantic search for the marrying kind. When the boys start finding their own relationships, the Saturday night trips to the bar become few and far between. That's when they realize it's lonely to be alone, and seek a steady partner of their own. We'd often wonder why most guys in their search for the marrying kind, end up going from one girl to another.
As they end up with us, we'd look at him as a man not worthy enough to be taken seriously. However, from a man's perspective, they'd jump from one relationship when they know it's not the right one. They'd stop hopping from one girl to another when they know they've finally found the marrying kind. Guys are often faced with certain what ifs. Ladies and gents, we're actually looking for the same thing. While they dream about a woman worthy enough to be the marrying kind, they date and try to meet her. While we make a mistake and get our hearts broken, they miss the mark and break hearts or get their hearts broken too.
Meeting our perfect match is something we all want. They'd understand that their Ms. Wrong could be someone else's Ms. Right, so up until they find their version of the latter, men keeps searching till they find the marrying kind.
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a Relationship Expert who has been successfully coaching individuals and couples in their relationships. Get A Copy of her sensational ebook on Winning Over Infidelity. Experience a Happier Love Life.
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Sunday, January 10, 2010
Interracial Relationship - Dating Outside One's Culture Without Betraying One's Roots
The public's outlook on socially and culturally sensitive issues is changing with every passing day. From 1967's legalization of interracial marriages to current trends of legalizing gay marriages, it is apparent that, given time, society learns to accept change. Interracial dating and romance is no longer uncommon and is becoming well established throughout North American society. The individuals within these relationships are generally comfortable with the knowledge that they can both maintain their own culture as well as introduce themselves to another. These couples do not feel that they are betraying their roots by learning new customs. In fact, in most cases it is the parents that pressure their children into not abandoning their culture and thus to avoid dating those of different ethnicities. When it deals with other people, it appears that most individuals are willing to accept multicultural dating, but those same individuals are against it when it jeopardizes their own customs and beliefs.
Many parents are worried that mixed raced dating will somehow dilute their own culture and will threaten the preservation of their cultural beliefs. They feel that in order to control the weakening of their cultural bonds, they must restrict the actions of their children i.e. prevent them from dating outside of their culture. Parents worry that if their child falls in love with someone of a different culture, they might sacrifice their own traditions in order to make the relationship work. Technically, it is up to their children to make these decisions. Realistically, the parents have the power to decide. Many children who go against their parent's will are punished with disapproval and even worse, alienation.
For couples in multicultural relationships, compromise is sometimes the best way to bridge the gap between the varying traditions. Choosing the most important traditions from each culture, while making sure to include the parents' opinions, will allow the partners and their parents to feel equally significant. The parents may never be completely happy with the choices their child has made, but at least they won't feel as thought that family roots have been betrayed.
People of different cultural backgrounds are not impervious to learning new customs and traditions. New partners may readily accept the challenge of engaging in the practices of different cultural groups. A person's roots are not left behind simply because they are exposed to new customs. Cultural and familial roots make us who we are, and that can never be taken away.
Interracial Relationship - Dating Outside One's Culture
People of different cultural backgrounds are not impervious to learning new customs and traditions.
Many parents are worried that mixed raced dating will somehow dilute their own culture and will threaten the preservation of their cultural beliefs. They feel that in order to control the weakening of their cultural bonds, they must restrict the actions of their children i.e. prevent them from dating outside of their culture. Parents worry that if their child falls in love with someone of a different culture, they might sacrifice their own traditions in order to make the relationship work. Technically, it is up to their children to make these decisions. Realistically, the parents have the power to decide. Many children who go against their parent's will are punished with disapproval and even worse, alienation.
For couples in multicultural relationships, compromise is sometimes the best way to bridge the gap between the varying traditions. Choosing the most important traditions from each culture, while making sure to include the parents' opinions, will allow the partners and their parents to feel equally significant. The parents may never be completely happy with the choices their child has made, but at least they won't feel as thought that family roots have been betrayed.
People of different cultural backgrounds are not impervious to learning new customs and traditions. New partners may readily accept the challenge of engaging in the practices of different cultural groups. A person's roots are not left behind simply because they are exposed to new customs. Cultural and familial roots make us who we are, and that can never be taken away.
Interracial Relationship - Dating Outside One's Culture
People of different cultural backgrounds are not impervious to learning new customs and traditions.
How to Know You Have Found Your Ideal Person
When it comes to dating, many people have a hard time figuring out whether or not they have found the ideal person. You might think that a person would automatically know it, and sometimes they do, but so many people are still under the impression that the grass is greener on the other side. Or that special person will just drop from heaven and say I am the one! If you are someone who always tends to think that there is something bigger and better out there, you may never be satisfied until you change your way of thinking.
Here are some questions to ask yourself as you decide whether your partner is ideal for you.
1. Think about the time that you and your partner spend together. Is there more peace than drama?
2. Do you experience joy and happiness most of the time you are in each others company.
3. While you do not have to like everything that the other person does, do you at least have some things in common?
4. Are both of you able to get along with or at least respect each other's friends?
5. Do you get on with each others family? Whilst it is not a prerequisite for a successful relationship it helps when there is peace between you and your partner's family.
6. Do you agree or at least have an understanding on the fundamentals of a future life together e.g whether you want to have children or not. the number of children you will have, how you will raise them, where you will live - would you be happy if you have to relocate to another country because of your partner? how to handle your finances etchese are some. These are some of the things that can cause major problems in a relationship when they are not addressed in the early stages of your relationship.
7. Religion and your spirtual understanding is another area to assess. Is there mutual respect of each others beliefs?
8. Are you open and transparent with one another. Is there a free flow communication between you? When you are able to communicate with someone freely it is a good sign of having of a healthy relationship
9. There are no secrets between you to the best of your knowledge
10. Have you found that you are both more concerned about the feelings and well being of their other person than your own
If you have answered yes to these few questions, you may have very well found the ideal person for you.
The key though is to make sure that you are not jumping into things too quickly. Just because you may have found Mr. or Miss Right does not mean that the while thing could not be ruined by simply jumping into an engagement or wedding too fast. You want to make sure that you are taking your time and that you are allowing the relationship to naturally blossom. Of course, there are some relationships that move very fast and are a success, but those are far and few between so you want to be careful with moving fast with the relationship.
If that special person allows that time to happen, you have found a catch. Do not believe that just because someone is being pushy about marriage that they must be the ideal catch for you. You want someone that will respect your space because once you are married, you are certainly going to need some of that from time to time.
Another thing to remember is that what may define the ideal person for one individual may not be the ideal type of person for another. Everyone is different so it is important to make sure that you are listening to your heart, and not the heart of everyone else. When you do this, you will have a much better shot at making sure that you find and hold onto the right person when you find him or her. Just relax and before you know it you will be in the arms of the perfect person for you and you will see just how much it was worth the wait.
To gain more insights and tips on dating and relationships visit http://www.singlesstreetlife.com.
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Here are some questions to ask yourself as you decide whether your partner is ideal for you.
1. Think about the time that you and your partner spend together. Is there more peace than drama?
2. Do you experience joy and happiness most of the time you are in each others company.
3. While you do not have to like everything that the other person does, do you at least have some things in common?
4. Are both of you able to get along with or at least respect each other's friends?
5. Do you get on with each others family? Whilst it is not a prerequisite for a successful relationship it helps when there is peace between you and your partner's family.
6. Do you agree or at least have an understanding on the fundamentals of a future life together e.g whether you want to have children or not. the number of children you will have, how you will raise them, where you will live - would you be happy if you have to relocate to another country because of your partner? how to handle your finances etchese are some. These are some of the things that can cause major problems in a relationship when they are not addressed in the early stages of your relationship.
7. Religion and your spirtual understanding is another area to assess. Is there mutual respect of each others beliefs?
8. Are you open and transparent with one another. Is there a free flow communication between you? When you are able to communicate with someone freely it is a good sign of having of a healthy relationship
9. There are no secrets between you to the best of your knowledge
10. Have you found that you are both more concerned about the feelings and well being of their other person than your own
If you have answered yes to these few questions, you may have very well found the ideal person for you.
The key though is to make sure that you are not jumping into things too quickly. Just because you may have found Mr. or Miss Right does not mean that the while thing could not be ruined by simply jumping into an engagement or wedding too fast. You want to make sure that you are taking your time and that you are allowing the relationship to naturally blossom. Of course, there are some relationships that move very fast and are a success, but those are far and few between so you want to be careful with moving fast with the relationship.
If that special person allows that time to happen, you have found a catch. Do not believe that just because someone is being pushy about marriage that they must be the ideal catch for you. You want someone that will respect your space because once you are married, you are certainly going to need some of that from time to time.
Another thing to remember is that what may define the ideal person for one individual may not be the ideal type of person for another. Everyone is different so it is important to make sure that you are listening to your heart, and not the heart of everyone else. When you do this, you will have a much better shot at making sure that you find and hold onto the right person when you find him or her. Just relax and before you know it you will be in the arms of the perfect person for you and you will see just how much it was worth the wait.
To gain more insights and tips on dating and relationships visit http://www.singlesstreetlife.com.
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How Not To Fall In Love: Suggestions for a Single Male
Love is one of the purest emotions in the world. Needless to say, the very idea of falling in love makes a person do things they never thought they’d do and not do things they have always been doing. Simply put, being in love is one of the best things that can happen to a single male – provided they have not committed to anyone and their proposed lady love is not already committed to someone. Here are some tips – albeit very difficult to follow – to ensure that a single male does not become a housebreaker.
Cupid can strike anywhere, be it the neighborhood, college, the place one works in, all these are simply battlegrounds for the most naughty angel around to get to work. However, various social and cultural norms prevent people from expressing their true emotions. Some steps one can take to prevent any romantic relations are:
In Crowd Lies Strength: Love is a two way street, with a person falling for someone, or someone falling for the said person. So, if you are getting vibes of any unneeded romantic feelings, disappear into the surroundings. Avoid meeting the person alone. Make sure that you have at least one or more of your colleagues or friends around when he or she turns up.
Avoid Eye Contact: Try not to look at the person directly. This will only complicate matters. If you have fallen for the person, you will be nothing else but a Oscar – winning actor if you can hide the blush on your cheek and the hazy gaze in your eye when she gives that dimpled smile or bats her eyelids, or does anything that first made your heart go ‘uhmm’. If she has fallen for you, giving her eye contact will only help in increasing her hopes of someone actually opening the door when she comes knocking at your heart’s door.
Speak of the Folks: One major reason for a single male trying not to fall in love is the girl in question being already committed or married. If you have fallen for the girl, talk to her about her family or her husband. This will only ensure that you always keep her married status in mind, or the father who is simply against you for some reason or the other. If the girl has fallen for you, talking to her about her family and husband will make her take things in the right perspective. Try to actually praise her husband or family, it makes the girl think of exactly how great a life she’s leading right now, and why she would not leave it for anything in this world.
Close Down, For Ever: Come what may, do not, ever, concern yourself with her private and family life. To be more precise, turn a blind eye to the black eye that she brings with herself to the office or college. Many species of the opposite gender are looking out for support and strength during those bad times in a marriage or a relationship. Speaking from experience, you will not be able to live with the fact that you ‘got a girl while she was on the rebound’.
While these are important suggestions for not falling in love with a person, one of the first things that you should do personally is learn to live without the girl in question. There are umpteen ways of doing this, like taking up a new hobby, socializing more with people you have already been socializing with, and so on and so forth.
Cupid can strike anywhere, be it the neighborhood, college, the place one works in, all these are simply battlegrounds for the most naughty angel around to get to work. However, various social and cultural norms prevent people from expressing their true emotions. Some steps one can take to prevent any romantic relations are:
In Crowd Lies Strength: Love is a two way street, with a person falling for someone, or someone falling for the said person. So, if you are getting vibes of any unneeded romantic feelings, disappear into the surroundings. Avoid meeting the person alone. Make sure that you have at least one or more of your colleagues or friends around when he or she turns up.
Avoid Eye Contact: Try not to look at the person directly. This will only complicate matters. If you have fallen for the person, you will be nothing else but a Oscar – winning actor if you can hide the blush on your cheek and the hazy gaze in your eye when she gives that dimpled smile or bats her eyelids, or does anything that first made your heart go ‘uhmm’. If she has fallen for you, giving her eye contact will only help in increasing her hopes of someone actually opening the door when she comes knocking at your heart’s door.
Speak of the Folks: One major reason for a single male trying not to fall in love is the girl in question being already committed or married. If you have fallen for the girl, talk to her about her family or her husband. This will only ensure that you always keep her married status in mind, or the father who is simply against you for some reason or the other. If the girl has fallen for you, talking to her about her family and husband will make her take things in the right perspective. Try to actually praise her husband or family, it makes the girl think of exactly how great a life she’s leading right now, and why she would not leave it for anything in this world.
Close Down, For Ever: Come what may, do not, ever, concern yourself with her private and family life. To be more precise, turn a blind eye to the black eye that she brings with herself to the office or college. Many species of the opposite gender are looking out for support and strength during those bad times in a marriage or a relationship. Speaking from experience, you will not be able to live with the fact that you ‘got a girl while she was on the rebound’.
While these are important suggestions for not falling in love with a person, one of the first things that you should do personally is learn to live without the girl in question. There are umpteen ways of doing this, like taking up a new hobby, socializing more with people you have already been socializing with, and so on and so forth.
Expert and Concise Advice on How to Keep a Woman Happy
Have you ever truly given any clear thought on how to keep a woman happy? One of the key elements first and foremost is to be yourself so you can represent a clear, complete picture of who she is involved with. Often men are tempted to dazzle too much instead of simply offering up a breathing, living male which is all she desires in the first place.
One of the sexiest things you can do is to approach with confidence. I'm sure you've seen a gorgeous "drop dead" woman on the arm of an ugly guy and feel confused as to how she could have been attracted to him. A sure example of the power of confidence attracting a woman where mere physical stature would not.
Every single date or encounter need not be done on a grand scale, often just a simple gesture to show you are thinking of her is sufficient. If you know she likes a particular candy or doughnut, bring a fresh bag over to share. Show up with flowers just because they are beautiful and remind you of her.
It is the little things that delight her and go a long way in adding up to a long, lasting relationship. Sharing these declarations of love will also show her how much she is appreciated. No one likes being taken for granted, male or female in relationships.
By truly showing you care with these small but powerful tools will show her how much she is valued. When you are with her make sure she has the complete focus of your attention. It is really degrading to be made to feel as though one is being judged or compared to every other woman in the room.
Even though on a intellectual level a woman knows that often men feel as though it is part of their cave man instinct to conquer by keeping their options open in surveying the territory, their monogamous nature will not accept this behavior. Most women are compelled to search for a partner they can be with for live, create a home for a nest where they can raise children and live happily ever after. It is just simply a force of nature with them.
Along with all the other tips of a lasting relationship strive to keep her laughing. In study after study it has been found that a sense of humor is paramount to lasting relationships from a woman's point of view. Finding common interest is also something that will benefit the both of you. During the course of the relationship seek out something that is a passion for her and be interested enough in it to be able to interact with her from time to time, asking her questions and being genuinely interested. It may cause you to go out of your comfort zone but at least you are making the effort which will delight her.
Another key element is to continue to put as much care into your appearance as you did during the courtship. Women do not put as much emphasis on looks as men do in the long run of the relationship but continuing to care about your outward appearance guarantees she will continue to have eyes only for you.
If she is fashionable and likes to stay ahead of the latest trends attempt to mimic her example. Just because you have her doesn't mean you can afford to let yourself go. Be the man she is proud to introduce to her family and friends.
Once the pursing stage of the relationship has settled down it is time to concentrate on becoming even more of a fixture in her life. You will be on display to her family and friends for inspection along the way. It is very important to women that her peers approve of her choice of a possible mate.
The final pieces of advice involve being sensitive to the basic differences between men and women. She is a much more sensitive creature than you and it would behoove you to remember the complexities of that element. In the beginning everything is new so try to remember to continue to be open to exploring new things and working on ways to keep the relationship fresh and exciting.
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One of the sexiest things you can do is to approach with confidence. I'm sure you've seen a gorgeous "drop dead" woman on the arm of an ugly guy and feel confused as to how she could have been attracted to him. A sure example of the power of confidence attracting a woman where mere physical stature would not.
Every single date or encounter need not be done on a grand scale, often just a simple gesture to show you are thinking of her is sufficient. If you know she likes a particular candy or doughnut, bring a fresh bag over to share. Show up with flowers just because they are beautiful and remind you of her.
It is the little things that delight her and go a long way in adding up to a long, lasting relationship. Sharing these declarations of love will also show her how much she is appreciated. No one likes being taken for granted, male or female in relationships.
By truly showing you care with these small but powerful tools will show her how much she is valued. When you are with her make sure she has the complete focus of your attention. It is really degrading to be made to feel as though one is being judged or compared to every other woman in the room.
Even though on a intellectual level a woman knows that often men feel as though it is part of their cave man instinct to conquer by keeping their options open in surveying the territory, their monogamous nature will not accept this behavior. Most women are compelled to search for a partner they can be with for live, create a home for a nest where they can raise children and live happily ever after. It is just simply a force of nature with them.
Along with all the other tips of a lasting relationship strive to keep her laughing. In study after study it has been found that a sense of humor is paramount to lasting relationships from a woman's point of view. Finding common interest is also something that will benefit the both of you. During the course of the relationship seek out something that is a passion for her and be interested enough in it to be able to interact with her from time to time, asking her questions and being genuinely interested. It may cause you to go out of your comfort zone but at least you are making the effort which will delight her.
Another key element is to continue to put as much care into your appearance as you did during the courtship. Women do not put as much emphasis on looks as men do in the long run of the relationship but continuing to care about your outward appearance guarantees she will continue to have eyes only for you.
If she is fashionable and likes to stay ahead of the latest trends attempt to mimic her example. Just because you have her doesn't mean you can afford to let yourself go. Be the man she is proud to introduce to her family and friends.
Once the pursing stage of the relationship has settled down it is time to concentrate on becoming even more of a fixture in her life. You will be on display to her family and friends for inspection along the way. It is very important to women that her peers approve of her choice of a possible mate.
The final pieces of advice involve being sensitive to the basic differences between men and women. She is a much more sensitive creature than you and it would behoove you to remember the complexities of that element. In the beginning everything is new so try to remember to continue to be open to exploring new things and working on ways to keep the relationship fresh and exciting.
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Dating and Relationship: Hopelessly Single
Are you one of those who has a very successful career, a dignified post and reputation and financial stability. If that is the case then we know exactly what your problem is?
Consider this
You go out on a date with a guy who is not as rich as you. Sub consciously you flaunt your status, and this not many people actually like. Therefore on your date you either "intimidate" men or you make them dislike you because of your "snooty" attitude.
What you need to do: In order to win a date you need to do a "market research" by getting some very candid feedback from three men and three women about you as a person and your personal style. Be sure to select these people (friends, family, colleagues) for their honesty. If there are consistent issues that arise with the feedback, take them to heart and make some changes.
Do I intimidate men
You may very well intimidate men with your achievements and status, and this is a common problem. Well if you do then here are a few suggestions.
Try to ease men into seeing that you are a strong career oriented person.
Play down your wardrobe and don't go on your first date "dress for success" with executive suits, expensive jewelry, or flashy clothing and accessories that reinforce your monetary status.
If you live in a more expensive home than he does, don't invite him over until your relationship is more secure.
Don't let your conversation focus heavily on your accomplishments at work. Rather, focus on mutual interests such as family, films, books or pets (not items that signify success, such as expensive vacations).
Don’t go declaring that you hold a hotshot post or you are a chairperson or president of a big multi-national company. You can simply tell him that you work in so-and-so company.
Eventually, if you establish strong feelings for each other, your success should not deter him, and you can say or wear whatever you want. But in the beginning, just focus on getting to know each other better.
Consider this
You go out on a date with a guy who is not as rich as you. Sub consciously you flaunt your status, and this not many people actually like. Therefore on your date you either "intimidate" men or you make them dislike you because of your "snooty" attitude.
What you need to do: In order to win a date you need to do a "market research" by getting some very candid feedback from three men and three women about you as a person and your personal style. Be sure to select these people (friends, family, colleagues) for their honesty. If there are consistent issues that arise with the feedback, take them to heart and make some changes.
Do I intimidate men
You may very well intimidate men with your achievements and status, and this is a common problem. Well if you do then here are a few suggestions.
Try to ease men into seeing that you are a strong career oriented person.
Play down your wardrobe and don't go on your first date "dress for success" with executive suits, expensive jewelry, or flashy clothing and accessories that reinforce your monetary status.
If you live in a more expensive home than he does, don't invite him over until your relationship is more secure.
Don't let your conversation focus heavily on your accomplishments at work. Rather, focus on mutual interests such as family, films, books or pets (not items that signify success, such as expensive vacations).
Don’t go declaring that you hold a hotshot post or you are a chairperson or president of a big multi-national company. You can simply tell him that you work in so-and-so company.
Eventually, if you establish strong feelings for each other, your success should not deter him, and you can say or wear whatever you want. But in the beginning, just focus on getting to know each other better.
Are We Compatible? - Tips For Relationship Longevity
* We have to be in it for the long haul and not just a booty call.
The decision should be made in the beginning of the relationship whether or not its just a fling. I am not saying till death do us part from the get go. There needs to be an understanding of what the intentions of both partners are. How do we tell the other person that we are looking for a potential life partner? We can use a question to feel out the other person; such as, I can see us growing old together do you feel the same way? There are no easy questions when dealing with human relationships. It is work and you feel awkward and exposed when you ask these kind of questions, because love is risk and you have to be willing to risk it all when showing someone else your feelings for them. It is vulnerability that creates intimacy when it is received with compassion. To answer the question there needs to be mature, honest, adult communication.
* Couples that play together stay together.
Men and women are different and unique in there choices of play and entertainment. This fact should not be a barrier in a relationship when it comes to activities that both can do together. Guys are big on recreational companionship and girls are big on relational building activities like sharing intimate details of their day. Why not do a recreational / relational building activity, like going hiking to a camp area and bringing a picnic with you. Or going to play disc golf. Both activities allow for some physical exertion and relational conversation. Depending on the level of athleticism of both partners you should choose activities that both can do and make sure it allows for interaction. If you can not find something that you both enjoy, then try learning a new sport or activity together.
* Love making happens in more ways than one.
As you share time together, be mindful of how your partner expresses their love toward you. If they like to do things for you, then chances are he/she would like to receive the same gesture. This applies to any expression of love. There are personality quizzes, love language assessments and other tools that can be used to help you determine both of your tendencies. There is no shame in using these tools and has no bearing on either ones ability to logically deduct the above mentioned traits. This knowledge sets you up for emotional stability and creates a loving environment that fosters a satisfying sex life.
The decision should be made in the beginning of the relationship whether or not its just a fling. I am not saying till death do us part from the get go. There needs to be an understanding of what the intentions of both partners are. How do we tell the other person that we are looking for a potential life partner? We can use a question to feel out the other person; such as, I can see us growing old together do you feel the same way? There are no easy questions when dealing with human relationships. It is work and you feel awkward and exposed when you ask these kind of questions, because love is risk and you have to be willing to risk it all when showing someone else your feelings for them. It is vulnerability that creates intimacy when it is received with compassion. To answer the question there needs to be mature, honest, adult communication.
* Couples that play together stay together.
Men and women are different and unique in there choices of play and entertainment. This fact should not be a barrier in a relationship when it comes to activities that both can do together. Guys are big on recreational companionship and girls are big on relational building activities like sharing intimate details of their day. Why not do a recreational / relational building activity, like going hiking to a camp area and bringing a picnic with you. Or going to play disc golf. Both activities allow for some physical exertion and relational conversation. Depending on the level of athleticism of both partners you should choose activities that both can do and make sure it allows for interaction. If you can not find something that you both enjoy, then try learning a new sport or activity together.
* Love making happens in more ways than one.
As you share time together, be mindful of how your partner expresses their love toward you. If they like to do things for you, then chances are he/she would like to receive the same gesture. This applies to any expression of love. There are personality quizzes, love language assessments and other tools that can be used to help you determine both of your tendencies. There is no shame in using these tools and has no bearing on either ones ability to logically deduct the above mentioned traits. This knowledge sets you up for emotional stability and creates a loving environment that fosters a satisfying sex life.
What Soulmate Theory is all About
You might date very many people but only one was meant to be your soulmate. Not every one who get attracted to you qualifies to be your significant other. It is more than meets the eye. It is a bit confusing when out of the blues your blood veins feels like bursting and your heart beat rate increases. Your perspective about life positively changes and yet you have doubts whether he/she is your real soul mate. Intimacy does not qualify the virtue either. A soul mate is a person who allows to grow, helps you release your emotions, all the insecurities that life presents such as fear among others. He/she helps you to be comfortable with yourself. He helps enjoy unconditional love, peace and gives you the purpose of facing each new day.
A life with a soul mate can be said to be in circles. A soul mate helps to do all things that has one theme and that is the innocence and the unconditional love you knew when you were a young kid. The idea of a soul mate is not a person who loves you completely but one who has the skill to deal with any issue inhibiting unconditional love. You do not have to be head over heels in love with your spouse but as you go through the live's journey together you will find yourself more and more in love with each other over time. There is nothing more fulfilling than feeling at peace with the relationship since there is evidence of harmony when you live with a soul mate.
The difference between a joker and a soulmate in your live can be detected by the heart-heart attraction. Your mind can reason out emotions or fears that can result into seperation. A matching soul mate leads to unconditional love and sometimes the mind fails to understand. The strong feeling outgrows the fear that your love might be misused. Your heart has the capacity to create the bond compared to your mind. A soul mate helps you break free from insecurities. This brings a new meaning to what love is. You stop seeing it as the illusion you knew it for in your teenage years, the family and society's definition becomes irrelevant. In such a relationship there is freedom to live life to the fullest.
A soul mate who takes your needs as his and helps you heal in all your areas of need. It is not easy to get to appreciate whatever you do not like about yourself. He/she deals with issues concerning money, social status and the common problems of all times(body shape). A soul mate will always help remove all the stumbling blocks that stops you from achieving all your goals. It is not necessariry love at first sight but it is the type that grows with time. It is God's will that your partner is in alignment to your soul's purpose. The most important thing to note is that he/she must not meet your family's or friends expectations.
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A life with a soul mate can be said to be in circles. A soul mate helps to do all things that has one theme and that is the innocence and the unconditional love you knew when you were a young kid. The idea of a soul mate is not a person who loves you completely but one who has the skill to deal with any issue inhibiting unconditional love. You do not have to be head over heels in love with your spouse but as you go through the live's journey together you will find yourself more and more in love with each other over time. There is nothing more fulfilling than feeling at peace with the relationship since there is evidence of harmony when you live with a soul mate.
The difference between a joker and a soulmate in your live can be detected by the heart-heart attraction. Your mind can reason out emotions or fears that can result into seperation. A matching soul mate leads to unconditional love and sometimes the mind fails to understand. The strong feeling outgrows the fear that your love might be misused. Your heart has the capacity to create the bond compared to your mind. A soul mate helps you break free from insecurities. This brings a new meaning to what love is. You stop seeing it as the illusion you knew it for in your teenage years, the family and society's definition becomes irrelevant. In such a relationship there is freedom to live life to the fullest.
A soul mate who takes your needs as his and helps you heal in all your areas of need. It is not easy to get to appreciate whatever you do not like about yourself. He/she deals with issues concerning money, social status and the common problems of all times(body shape). A soul mate will always help remove all the stumbling blocks that stops you from achieving all your goals. It is not necessariry love at first sight but it is the type that grows with time. It is God's will that your partner is in alignment to your soul's purpose. The most important thing to note is that he/she must not meet your family's or friends expectations.
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Wednesday, January 6, 2010
Dating Tips for Women Over 30
nullAs soon as you reach thirty, you might start thinking that you won't be having much luck in finding your dream man. But don't worry, being over thirty should not put you on the panic mode. You will be glad to find that there are a lot of decent, kind and available men who is looking for someone to love and that could just be you. You don't have to do anything drastic. Just get on with these proven dating tips for women over 30. These strategies are similar to dating tips for women in general which will give practical tips and eye opening insights for inspiration. Read more on relationship advice for women.
Dating Tips for Women Over 30
So how do think you will meet those wonderful men? These dating tips for women over 30 will tell you how.
Dating Tips for Women Over 30 #1
The first and the foremost tip is that you should not sound desperate. Desperation proves to be a total turn off for guys, so try to adjust your perception as well as your attitude. Do not think that being unmarried till this moment is a tragedy but think of it as a God send opportunity for another chance to make the right decision. You will be surprised to see how much you have matured since you were in your twenties. Also don't try to have a preconceived image of your Prince Charming like those of a favorite celebrity. Don't make the mistake of trying to change your man to fit your preconceived image. It's high time to get real.
Dating Tips for Women Over 30 #2
"Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder". Looking beautiful is every woman's birthright. If you are hoping to get the man of your dreams and feel that your age is working against you, make sure that you at least try to look like presentable and feminine. Take proper care of your appearance, maintain good hygiene. Wear dresses that makes you look stylish and attractive.
Dating Tips for Women Over 30 #3
Lastly, if you are really hoping to win a husband, make sure that you are really serious or genuine in your decision i.e. you are not wasting your time by dating guys until you find your Mr. Right or guys who are too young to commit or those who not established and cannot support even a family.
Dating Tips for Older women
Nowadays for women in their 50s and 40s, age does not matter while dating. You can find that any kind of relationships are workable regardless of whatever maybe their age, gender and social status. Dating tips for women over 50 are similar to dating tips for women over 40. By this stage these women are well established, confident and very well aware of their needs and demands. As a result they may also tend to have sky high egos. So try to check your egos and approach them with the right attitude. If you are are dating a younger man, the age question is definitely bound to crop up. But don't let that be a hindrance to your relationship. Talk to them and don't feel shy.
Dating Tips for Women Over 30
So how do think you will meet those wonderful men? These dating tips for women over 30 will tell you how.
Dating Tips for Women Over 30 #1
The first and the foremost tip is that you should not sound desperate. Desperation proves to be a total turn off for guys, so try to adjust your perception as well as your attitude. Do not think that being unmarried till this moment is a tragedy but think of it as a God send opportunity for another chance to make the right decision. You will be surprised to see how much you have matured since you were in your twenties. Also don't try to have a preconceived image of your Prince Charming like those of a favorite celebrity. Don't make the mistake of trying to change your man to fit your preconceived image. It's high time to get real.
Dating Tips for Women Over 30 #2
"Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder". Looking beautiful is every woman's birthright. If you are hoping to get the man of your dreams and feel that your age is working against you, make sure that you at least try to look like presentable and feminine. Take proper care of your appearance, maintain good hygiene. Wear dresses that makes you look stylish and attractive.
Dating Tips for Women Over 30 #3
Lastly, if you are really hoping to win a husband, make sure that you are really serious or genuine in your decision i.e. you are not wasting your time by dating guys until you find your Mr. Right or guys who are too young to commit or those who not established and cannot support even a family.
Dating Tips for Older women
Nowadays for women in their 50s and 40s, age does not matter while dating. You can find that any kind of relationships are workable regardless of whatever maybe their age, gender and social status. Dating tips for women over 50 are similar to dating tips for women over 40. By this stage these women are well established, confident and very well aware of their needs and demands. As a result they may also tend to have sky high egos. So try to check your egos and approach them with the right attitude. If you are are dating a younger man, the age question is definitely bound to crop up. But don't let that be a hindrance to your relationship. Talk to them and don't feel shy.
Relationship Advice: 10 Ways to Survive a Break Up
nullBreak ups are never easy. You are a bundle of jealous, hurt, angry, resentful emotions. Your mood can swing from depression to bitter anger. The only thing you seem to think about is what went wrong, can I get him/her back or I’ll show him/her. The main theme in your life is ‘How can I feel better right NOW?’ Here are some suggestions that I hope will help.
1.Friends and Family. I know this may seem obvious but lean on your friends and family. Spend time doing things together, not just talking and thinking about the break up. If this isn’t enough, you may consider a support group or counseling.
2.Resist the urge to beg. You want them back but not at any price. At the time it may seem the right thing to do but think about it. In the long run they will lose respect for you. This doesn’t mean don’t try to work things out. If there is a chance you can work things out, go for it. However, if your partner has made it clear that in their eyes, the relationship is over, begging will not help and may hurt the situation.
3.Make a change in your life. Find a new way to spend your time. Take a class, join a gym, adopt a pet, or volunteer. Do anything that will make you feel good about yourself. Your ego is probably feeling bruised right now. Find a way to counteract that.
4.Understand your mistakes but also realize that you are not a failure. Don’t beat yourself up. If you made mistakes, then yes, learn from them but dwelling on what might have been won’t help. It takes two to make a relationship, it also takes two to end one. You weren’t the only one who made mistakes. It may not seem useful to you now, but a lot of times the things you learned from this experience will make your next relationship stronger, as long as you make the necessary changes.
5.Start Dating. You won’t feel like it at first, but don’t stay away from other people for an extended period of time. Going out with other people can help the healing process and boast your ego.
6.Don’t fall prey to others. There will be people trying to sell you this or that, guaranteed to win back your partner. Don’t let people take advantage of you while you are vulnerable. If you do buy something, understand that while there is a chance it could help, there is also a chance that it won’t.
7.Take up a hobby. Learn something new. There is probably something you’ve always wanted to try but never had the time. You have the time, do it.
8.Don’t rush into another relationship. While starting to date can help you feel better, it’s not a good idea to rush right into another relationship. Take time to heal before making any commitments or someone will probably end up getting hurt.
9.Avoid dwelling on it. I know it’s impossible not to think about it, but, if you find yourself doing so for an extended period of time, find a way to take your mind off of it. Call a friend; go to the gym, whatever comes to mind. If nothing seems to work, try this: Make a list of reasons why you are better off now. This could include I have time to do the things I want to do. I can date anyone I want to. I can find a partner who will appreciate me the way I am and stop wasting time on a doomed relationship. Think about the things they did that drove you crazy, because there are some. Don’t look back with rose colored glasses and only remember the good things. Don’t have the idea in your head that if only we were back together I would be happy. Wrong. Wouldn’t they have a lot to answer for if you did get back together? Leaving you was probably the biggest mistake they will ever make. Let them dwell on it, you move on!
10.Build your ego. I’ve touched on this already but it is very important. Find ways to feel better about yourself. This could be anything from getting a haircut to buying some new clothes. You could take a class on self improvement. If nothing else, you should do this: Make a list of things that make you a great person. Don’t sit there and tell me you can’t think of anything. I don’t buy it. Try again. Are you kind? Patient? Intelligent? Cook like a pro? Can fix anything? There are things that make you great. WRITE them down and whenever you feel low, read your list and add to it. You are you and you are great so don’t let anyone ever make you feel that you aren’t.
1.Friends and Family. I know this may seem obvious but lean on your friends and family. Spend time doing things together, not just talking and thinking about the break up. If this isn’t enough, you may consider a support group or counseling.
2.Resist the urge to beg. You want them back but not at any price. At the time it may seem the right thing to do but think about it. In the long run they will lose respect for you. This doesn’t mean don’t try to work things out. If there is a chance you can work things out, go for it. However, if your partner has made it clear that in their eyes, the relationship is over, begging will not help and may hurt the situation.
3.Make a change in your life. Find a new way to spend your time. Take a class, join a gym, adopt a pet, or volunteer. Do anything that will make you feel good about yourself. Your ego is probably feeling bruised right now. Find a way to counteract that.
4.Understand your mistakes but also realize that you are not a failure. Don’t beat yourself up. If you made mistakes, then yes, learn from them but dwelling on what might have been won’t help. It takes two to make a relationship, it also takes two to end one. You weren’t the only one who made mistakes. It may not seem useful to you now, but a lot of times the things you learned from this experience will make your next relationship stronger, as long as you make the necessary changes.
5.Start Dating. You won’t feel like it at first, but don’t stay away from other people for an extended period of time. Going out with other people can help the healing process and boast your ego.
6.Don’t fall prey to others. There will be people trying to sell you this or that, guaranteed to win back your partner. Don’t let people take advantage of you while you are vulnerable. If you do buy something, understand that while there is a chance it could help, there is also a chance that it won’t.
7.Take up a hobby. Learn something new. There is probably something you’ve always wanted to try but never had the time. You have the time, do it.
8.Don’t rush into another relationship. While starting to date can help you feel better, it’s not a good idea to rush right into another relationship. Take time to heal before making any commitments or someone will probably end up getting hurt.
9.Avoid dwelling on it. I know it’s impossible not to think about it, but, if you find yourself doing so for an extended period of time, find a way to take your mind off of it. Call a friend; go to the gym, whatever comes to mind. If nothing seems to work, try this: Make a list of reasons why you are better off now. This could include I have time to do the things I want to do. I can date anyone I want to. I can find a partner who will appreciate me the way I am and stop wasting time on a doomed relationship. Think about the things they did that drove you crazy, because there are some. Don’t look back with rose colored glasses and only remember the good things. Don’t have the idea in your head that if only we were back together I would be happy. Wrong. Wouldn’t they have a lot to answer for if you did get back together? Leaving you was probably the biggest mistake they will ever make. Let them dwell on it, you move on!
10.Build your ego. I’ve touched on this already but it is very important. Find ways to feel better about yourself. This could be anything from getting a haircut to buying some new clothes. You could take a class on self improvement. If nothing else, you should do this: Make a list of things that make you a great person. Don’t sit there and tell me you can’t think of anything. I don’t buy it. Try again. Are you kind? Patient? Intelligent? Cook like a pro? Can fix anything? There are things that make you great. WRITE them down and whenever you feel low, read your list and add to it. You are you and you are great so don’t let anyone ever make you feel that you aren’t.
7 Ways to Prepare For a Relationship
If you haven't been in a relationship lately, you might have forgotten how to do it. Conversely, if you've just gotten out of one, you might be dragging along all that baggage. Either way, it's important to make sure you're prepared for a new relationship before you get into one. If you're not, you might end up reacting in ways that aren't too helpful. Here's a look at what you should do to prepare for a relationship that'll last.
1. Get into it for the right reasons. Are you dating because you're lonely or need to boost your ego? Do you feel like you have to get married before your biological clock runs out? These are bad reasons to get into a relationship, and don't spell success in your future. Make sure you're doing things for all the correct reasons if you want to avoid trouble.
2. Get rid of all your baggage. Sure, your past relationships have had issues. You might be scared of certain behaviors, certain your new partner is going to lie to you, or still sad about your ex. But you can't let those rule your new relationship - this is a new person. They're not responsible for anything that happened in the past.
3. Know what you want. Too many people who know they want a long term relationship settle for a short term one, thinking they'll be okay, or sure they can trick their partner into staying. Lots of people looking for something short get stuck in longer relationships out of guilt or obligation, too. If you know what you want out of a relationship, your chances of being happy will be a lot better.
4. Decide what you won't compromise. If you're very religious, sure about your career, or picky about certain lifestyle elements, you need to know it and be ready to stand fast. It's better not to get into a relationship that'll cause strife later on.
5. Make sure you have someone to talk to. When things are going well, you're going to want someone to chatter at about your new love. When they're not going so well, you might want a shoulder to cry on, an experienced friend who'll give advice, or just someone who'll listen to you rant. Before you start dating, make sure you've got support.
6. Look at your schedule. That might sound funny, until you realize your busy life doesn't have space for another person! Make sure you create room to hang out, have dates, and enjoy your time together without stress.
7. Be open to new things. No new person is going to be just like the last person you dated, and they're going to surprise you somehow. Be open to it and ready to have a good relationship!
Being prepared for a relationship can help prevent you from heart break. It is not fool proof and neither can it guarantee a lasting relationship but it can help you tick some of the boxes in your mind which will help you know whether you are ready to date again.
To gain more insights and tips on dating and relationships visit http://www.singlesstreetlife.com.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com
1. Get into it for the right reasons. Are you dating because you're lonely or need to boost your ego? Do you feel like you have to get married before your biological clock runs out? These are bad reasons to get into a relationship, and don't spell success in your future. Make sure you're doing things for all the correct reasons if you want to avoid trouble.
2. Get rid of all your baggage. Sure, your past relationships have had issues. You might be scared of certain behaviors, certain your new partner is going to lie to you, or still sad about your ex. But you can't let those rule your new relationship - this is a new person. They're not responsible for anything that happened in the past.
3. Know what you want. Too many people who know they want a long term relationship settle for a short term one, thinking they'll be okay, or sure they can trick their partner into staying. Lots of people looking for something short get stuck in longer relationships out of guilt or obligation, too. If you know what you want out of a relationship, your chances of being happy will be a lot better.
4. Decide what you won't compromise. If you're very religious, sure about your career, or picky about certain lifestyle elements, you need to know it and be ready to stand fast. It's better not to get into a relationship that'll cause strife later on.
5. Make sure you have someone to talk to. When things are going well, you're going to want someone to chatter at about your new love. When they're not going so well, you might want a shoulder to cry on, an experienced friend who'll give advice, or just someone who'll listen to you rant. Before you start dating, make sure you've got support.
6. Look at your schedule. That might sound funny, until you realize your busy life doesn't have space for another person! Make sure you create room to hang out, have dates, and enjoy your time together without stress.
7. Be open to new things. No new person is going to be just like the last person you dated, and they're going to surprise you somehow. Be open to it and ready to have a good relationship!
Being prepared for a relationship can help prevent you from heart break. It is not fool proof and neither can it guarantee a lasting relationship but it can help you tick some of the boxes in your mind which will help you know whether you are ready to date again.
To gain more insights and tips on dating and relationships visit http://www.singlesstreetlife.com.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com
5 Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Meet Your Soulmate
Before you ask "Where do I find my Soulmate?", you need to ask if you're ready to meet him. What qualities would your soulmate be attracted to? Are you still carrying the emotional baggage from past relationships? Are you open to the possibilities and opportunities for change that your search for a soulmate will bring into your life? If the person you're looking for is fun, trustworthy and responsible, are you putting yourself out there to attract people with these qualities? Are you ready for love? Are you ready to give love?
Just as you want certain qualities in a soulmate, your soulmate is also looking for certain qualities. The worst thing that can happen to you is to find the person you believe is your soulmate and discover he's not into you. Not that he doesn't like you, but that he feels you're not the right person for him.
Here are 5 questions to ask yourself before you meet your soulmate to be sure that you're ready for him.
What am I looking for in my soulmate? This is where some women get off track. There are some things that are definite deal breakers, but many things that you might lists are not really as important. You'll never find a perfect person. We all have faults, so you need to decide which faults will be acceptable if the major qualities and values are there. Remember the shorter your list the more possibilities for success. The longer the list the more you're limiting yourself and increasing your chance of excluding your soulmate.
What qualities do I need to exude to attract my soulmate? What would he want. Think of the type of person you want to attract. What is it about you that would attract him? Do see yourself possessing the qualities you want in him. Now I'm not saying change who you are, but if there are things that you've wanted to work on, this is the time to do it. Start the exercise program. Eat healthy. Straighten out your finances. Go back to school. Look for a better job. The things you put off until later, start them now. Make a list of 5 things you want to work on and start working on them one at a time.
What qualities do I have now that can attract my soulmate? Now that you've thought about what you want and what he might be looking for, you can start looking at what qualities you already have. Count your assets. Count your blessings. This can be the hard for some people. So, ask your friends and family to tell you what makes you special. What is it about you that they like? You may be surprised by some of the answers. What have people praised you for in the past? What special talents and skills do you have? Make a list and look at it everyday. Add to it often and learn to accept how great you are.
Am I ready for a relationship? Most people enter into a relationship with some emotional baggage. The more baggage the harder it is to get on the path to a stable long term relationship. Examining how we feel about our pasts can be hard. Most people don't want to remember their past relationships. But to succeed in a new relationship you need to look back and release yourself from any anger or fear that you might have. Realize that you're a different person and releasing yourself from those feeling are part of growing. Forgive those in your past and move on. Don't let pain and fear from your past control your future happiness. So lighten your emotional load and get rid of some of the baggage.
What do I need to do to attract my soulmate? Get out there and meet men. You're not going to attract your soulmate if you don't find a way to meet him. Put your profile on dating sites like Match.com, FriendFinder.com or PlentyofFish.com (which is free). Join activities or clubs for topics you're interested in. Join a gym. Go to sporting events. Try speed dating. Let your friends set you up a blind date. Just put yourself in places where you can meet single men. Make a list of 5 places where you can meet men and get started.
Being at your best will give you confidence. When a woman is confident she exudes an energy that attracts men. Your soulmate will find it hard to ignore these qualities. At this point you won't need to ask "Where can I find my soulmate?" again. You'll be drawing your soulmate to you.
Shana is a writer, coach and consultant specializing in personal and business development, relationships and personal growth. You can read her other relationship articles at DatingTipsForFindingLove.com
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com
Just as you want certain qualities in a soulmate, your soulmate is also looking for certain qualities. The worst thing that can happen to you is to find the person you believe is your soulmate and discover he's not into you. Not that he doesn't like you, but that he feels you're not the right person for him.
Here are 5 questions to ask yourself before you meet your soulmate to be sure that you're ready for him.
What am I looking for in my soulmate? This is where some women get off track. There are some things that are definite deal breakers, but many things that you might lists are not really as important. You'll never find a perfect person. We all have faults, so you need to decide which faults will be acceptable if the major qualities and values are there. Remember the shorter your list the more possibilities for success. The longer the list the more you're limiting yourself and increasing your chance of excluding your soulmate.
What qualities do I need to exude to attract my soulmate? What would he want. Think of the type of person you want to attract. What is it about you that would attract him? Do see yourself possessing the qualities you want in him. Now I'm not saying change who you are, but if there are things that you've wanted to work on, this is the time to do it. Start the exercise program. Eat healthy. Straighten out your finances. Go back to school. Look for a better job. The things you put off until later, start them now. Make a list of 5 things you want to work on and start working on them one at a time.
What qualities do I have now that can attract my soulmate? Now that you've thought about what you want and what he might be looking for, you can start looking at what qualities you already have. Count your assets. Count your blessings. This can be the hard for some people. So, ask your friends and family to tell you what makes you special. What is it about you that they like? You may be surprised by some of the answers. What have people praised you for in the past? What special talents and skills do you have? Make a list and look at it everyday. Add to it often and learn to accept how great you are.
Am I ready for a relationship? Most people enter into a relationship with some emotional baggage. The more baggage the harder it is to get on the path to a stable long term relationship. Examining how we feel about our pasts can be hard. Most people don't want to remember their past relationships. But to succeed in a new relationship you need to look back and release yourself from any anger or fear that you might have. Realize that you're a different person and releasing yourself from those feeling are part of growing. Forgive those in your past and move on. Don't let pain and fear from your past control your future happiness. So lighten your emotional load and get rid of some of the baggage.
What do I need to do to attract my soulmate? Get out there and meet men. You're not going to attract your soulmate if you don't find a way to meet him. Put your profile on dating sites like Match.com, FriendFinder.com or PlentyofFish.com (which is free). Join activities or clubs for topics you're interested in. Join a gym. Go to sporting events. Try speed dating. Let your friends set you up a blind date. Just put yourself in places where you can meet single men. Make a list of 5 places where you can meet men and get started.
Being at your best will give you confidence. When a woman is confident she exudes an energy that attracts men. Your soulmate will find it hard to ignore these qualities. At this point you won't need to ask "Where can I find my soulmate?" again. You'll be drawing your soulmate to you.
Shana is a writer, coach and consultant specializing in personal and business development, relationships and personal growth. You can read her other relationship articles at DatingTipsForFindingLove.com
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com
When You Are Used to Being on Your Own - How to Start Sharing Again
Many of us find ourselves single by default. We may well have had a long term relationship or two, but then find ourselves unexpectedly living alone, in different surroundings, having to start out again. At first it can be a busy time, recovering from the upheaval, settling into our new home, earning money to pay the bills, making new friends and interests. Then reality sets in. This is it. This is how it is going to be.
Some people rapidly find the dating game fun and build a busy social life quite quickly. Others find it a much slower process for many reasons. Some people may not feel that they want to find a new partner, they may still be hurting and need time to heal. Others may be shy or find the whole social process of where to go, what to wear, what to say daunting. Still others may be genuinely disinterested in the whole process and be happy going about their lives with their business and social interests fairly settled and sufficient for their needs.
Years may pass with a comfortable, happy enough, quality of life being established. Then, totally out of the blue, a potential new partner can come into our life. It may be through a friends' introduction, or through work or a social club, but all of a sudden this new relationship has come into our life. Exciting, scary, unprepared are all emotions that can be experienced at a time like this. How to cope and enjoy the opportunity is a big part of the challenge as many people settle over time into the mind set that they are passed having emotional relationships and are comfortable with the quality of their present lifestyle. A concern as to the level of disruption that this new experience may bring into their life, emotions and routine can be a real impediment to agreeing to start out again on the relationship front.
However, when there is a potential for joy, intimacy and closeness in a new relationship, why not take a chance and have a go? Love, support and companionship are valuable things to have in life and if we get another chance for happiness with a special someone who cares about us, it does seem a shame to miss the opportunity through fear and apprehension. Taking things steady can be a good guide to success at a time like this. Learning about someone elses' interests, opinions and tastes can open a wealth of new experiences, and if not all are fun or what we would have chosen to do, well at least we can say that we tried something new and different.
Enjoy the companionship and appreciate that the only rule is that there are no rules at a time like this. What does it matter what the neighbours or other people think. Most true friends are pleased when someone close is doing something that makes them smile and gives them pleasure. They are pleased to see a friend happy and settled with a caring partner.
Keep communications between you both open and honest. It is good to say how one feels about different matters. Even feeling tense or uneasy about something is best aired, as often, once it has been said and is out in the open the negative feelings tend to disperse.
Find a balance between stretching yourself and compromising. Many new areas of interest can be explored in a relationship, and this is especially relevant later on in life, when there are no business, children or elderly family members in need of the same level of attention as in earlier years. It can be an adventure to try different music, food, interests, even holiday styles and destinations.
The motivation to try these new things can bring with it a new lease of life. Many people find that they start to get fitter, lose a little weight and get more toned, maybe revitalise their wardrobe or image, all things to bring a spring to ones step and a more positive feel to life.
Maintaining ones own interests and friendships is also important. There is no need to put all ones eggs into one basket. Keep some space for personal time whilst also enjoying the new experiences and interests that have been brought into your life. And remember, life is not a dress rehearsal, it is the real deal. Make each day count and enjoy the opportunities that come along.
Susan Leigh is a Counsellor and Hypnotherapist who works with:
- stressed individuals to promote confidence and self belief
- couples in crisis to help improve communications and understanding
- with business clients to help support the health and motivation levels of individuals and teams
For more information see http://www.lifestyletherapy.net
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com
Some people rapidly find the dating game fun and build a busy social life quite quickly. Others find it a much slower process for many reasons. Some people may not feel that they want to find a new partner, they may still be hurting and need time to heal. Others may be shy or find the whole social process of where to go, what to wear, what to say daunting. Still others may be genuinely disinterested in the whole process and be happy going about their lives with their business and social interests fairly settled and sufficient for their needs.
Years may pass with a comfortable, happy enough, quality of life being established. Then, totally out of the blue, a potential new partner can come into our life. It may be through a friends' introduction, or through work or a social club, but all of a sudden this new relationship has come into our life. Exciting, scary, unprepared are all emotions that can be experienced at a time like this. How to cope and enjoy the opportunity is a big part of the challenge as many people settle over time into the mind set that they are passed having emotional relationships and are comfortable with the quality of their present lifestyle. A concern as to the level of disruption that this new experience may bring into their life, emotions and routine can be a real impediment to agreeing to start out again on the relationship front.
However, when there is a potential for joy, intimacy and closeness in a new relationship, why not take a chance and have a go? Love, support and companionship are valuable things to have in life and if we get another chance for happiness with a special someone who cares about us, it does seem a shame to miss the opportunity through fear and apprehension. Taking things steady can be a good guide to success at a time like this. Learning about someone elses' interests, opinions and tastes can open a wealth of new experiences, and if not all are fun or what we would have chosen to do, well at least we can say that we tried something new and different.
Enjoy the companionship and appreciate that the only rule is that there are no rules at a time like this. What does it matter what the neighbours or other people think. Most true friends are pleased when someone close is doing something that makes them smile and gives them pleasure. They are pleased to see a friend happy and settled with a caring partner.
Keep communications between you both open and honest. It is good to say how one feels about different matters. Even feeling tense or uneasy about something is best aired, as often, once it has been said and is out in the open the negative feelings tend to disperse.
Find a balance between stretching yourself and compromising. Many new areas of interest can be explored in a relationship, and this is especially relevant later on in life, when there are no business, children or elderly family members in need of the same level of attention as in earlier years. It can be an adventure to try different music, food, interests, even holiday styles and destinations.
The motivation to try these new things can bring with it a new lease of life. Many people find that they start to get fitter, lose a little weight and get more toned, maybe revitalise their wardrobe or image, all things to bring a spring to ones step and a more positive feel to life.
Maintaining ones own interests and friendships is also important. There is no need to put all ones eggs into one basket. Keep some space for personal time whilst also enjoying the new experiences and interests that have been brought into your life. And remember, life is not a dress rehearsal, it is the real deal. Make each day count and enjoy the opportunities that come along.
Susan Leigh is a Counsellor and Hypnotherapist who works with:
- stressed individuals to promote confidence and self belief
- couples in crisis to help improve communications and understanding
- with business clients to help support the health and motivation levels of individuals and teams
For more information see http://www.lifestyletherapy.net
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com
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