Many of the students I personally trained are in the start of a relationship with a girl that answers all their standards. And it came to my attention that many of them lack the knowledge, due to past lack of experience, on how to maintain, and how to start a successful long term relationship with a girl. Here is some of my best advice to use in an early relationship. Let's begin:
• In the beginning of the relationship (2-3 successful dates) there's no need to call her every day on the phone, allow her to miss you, to be a little uncertain, let her mind sink with thoughts of you. A man who call women more than two times in a day, or send them too many messages, is making the woman think that he's dependent, bored... and believe me... that's a huge turn off! Compared to him, the busy guy, that has life, that projects some Indifference, but he knows to say the right words so we will know he's interested, he... really turns them on.
• Think about being spontaneous and flexible, but don't exaggerate, if you already made plans with your friends, or other plans, there is no reason for you to cancel them for her, especially that early in your relationship, again, women love men that live an interesting and exciting way of life, without them. Too much excitement though will be pretty annoying and, it will lower your value. Btw, if you have free time after work, GET A LIFE! Go and sign up for some cool activities, seminars, anything you always wanted to do but you never did, and don't forget to compliment yourself when you do so. Also, invest your time in sports - it will pay off!
• Be different! Don't be like everybody else, if you're like everyone else you are boring and she wants someone who will excite her, give her stomach butterflies and will rock her world. Plan your dates, think what everyone does, and how you are going to make it different, by taking her to a special place, maybe a cool activity, bowling, laughing yoga, to a tarot reading witch, surprise her!
• It's important to take matters into your hands with everything that involves making decisions. You of course can consult her, and ask for her opinion, but don't get to the situation where you say: "whatever you want". Women will not often admit that, and the feminists would probably be angry with me, but women love men who know what they want, women enjoy, and are attracted to a man that make the decisions for them, it makes them feel very feminine... and it's fun.
• And with the last tip in mind, don't apologize for your needs as a man, you are attracted to her, and she is very flattered by that, and you know what? Women also love touch and even sex... OH MY! The thing is with women that they don't want to appear too easy or to feel slutty. Women we're educated that having sex early in a relationship is cheap and not honorable, and therefore they need to give themselves some excuses. If you invite her to your place with no excuse, that would mean for her that you are asking her to come for sex, and she will have to turn you down to keep her honor, but if you'll invite her to see your cool collection of comic books, that would sound like a reasonable excuse for her, and it will make her feel as if: "it just happened"
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Hi, I'm Nicholas N. Black, a dating coach expert, a master seductionist, and the leader of my tribe. I've been in the field of self improvement and seduction for over a decade, and i studied with the best gurus and leaders in this area. I live my life in the way of constant and never-ending improvement. I've been there, and I've done that. Allow me to enrich your world with countless possibilities and opportunities that will make your life worth living:)
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