Put Power in Your Relationship - Let Sex Wait

In this modern age, do you find it silly to see women who aren't having sex with their partner right away? Is sex pretty much the first thing that happens between you and a cute guy? Do you know the power of sex and you believe that without it a relationship can not move forward? True, sex is powerful and important. However starting a relationship based on sex isn't really the best way to get into a truly long lasting romance.

It's not so much a matter of sex ruining a relationship if it's brought in too soon, it's more a matter of the type of guy you attract if you put your easy sexuality out there. The men who will look at you, be attracted to you and come up to talk to you are more apt to have sex on their mind, and that's all.

But the man who is looking for a more meaningful relationship will see you, might be attracted to the image you suggest, but won't really consider you as a potential for a mate.

The other problem with having sex too early on is the fact that many women will read a lot more into the sexual encounter than the guy will. Men can easily say and do anything while in the throws of passion. But once the moment has passed, every word and action becomes meaningless.

However, the woman often clings to those words and actions, believing them to be true reflections of his feelings for her. She can end up wasting weeks or months clinging to the hope that his love for her is building, while in actuality, he's just having his way with her.

Don't underestimate a good man's ability to control his sexual urges. Sure he'll want you and he'll look forward to one day getting you into bed, but he'll be ready to wait. Many men even enjoy this time of growing passion, excruciating anticipation and the challenge of the conquest.

Letting sex wait a while can be good all around.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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