5 Questions to Ask Yourself Before You Meet Your Soulmate

Before you ask "Where do I find my Soulmate?", you need to ask if you're ready to meet him. What qualities would your soulmate be attracted to? Are you still carrying the emotional baggage from past relationships? Are you open to the possibilities and opportunities for change that your search for a soulmate will bring into your life? If the person you're looking for is fun, trustworthy and responsible, are you putting yourself out there to attract people with these qualities? Are you ready for love? Are you ready to give love?

Just as you want certain qualities in a soulmate, your soulmate is also looking for certain qualities. The worst thing that can happen to you is to find the person you believe is your soulmate and discover he's not into you. Not that he doesn't like you, but that he feels you're not the right person for him.

Here are 5 questions to ask yourself before you meet your soulmate to be sure that you're ready for him.

What am I looking for in my soulmate? This is where some women get off track. There are some things that are definite deal breakers, but many things that you might lists are not really as important. You'll never find a perfect person. We all have faults, so you need to decide which faults will be acceptable if the major qualities and values are there. Remember the shorter your list the more possibilities for success. The longer the list the more you're limiting yourself and increasing your chance of excluding your soulmate.

What qualities do I need to exude to attract my soulmate? What would he want. Think of the type of person you want to attract. What is it about you that would attract him? Do see yourself possessing the qualities you want in him. Now I'm not saying change who you are, but if there are things that you've wanted to work on, this is the time to do it. Start the exercise program. Eat healthy. Straighten out your finances. Go back to school. Look for a better job. The things you put off until later, start them now. Make a list of 5 things you want to work on and start working on them one at a time.

What qualities do I have now that can attract my soulmate? Now that you've thought about what you want and what he might be looking for, you can start looking at what qualities you already have. Count your assets. Count your blessings. This can be the hard for some people. So, ask your friends and family to tell you what makes you special. What is it about you that they like? You may be surprised by some of the answers. What have people praised you for in the past? What special talents and skills do you have? Make a list and look at it everyday. Add to it often and learn to accept how great you are.

Am I ready for a relationship? Most people enter into a relationship with some emotional baggage. The more baggage the harder it is to get on the path to a stable long term relationship. Examining how we feel about our pasts can be hard. Most people don't want to remember their past relationships. But to succeed in a new relationship you need to look back and release yourself from any anger or fear that you might have. Realize that you're a different person and releasing yourself from those feeling are part of growing. Forgive those in your past and move on. Don't let pain and fear from your past control your future happiness. So lighten your emotional load and get rid of some of the baggage.

What do I need to do to attract my soulmate? Get out there and meet men. You're not going to attract your soulmate if you don't find a way to meet him. Put your profile on dating sites like Match.com, FriendFinder.com or PlentyofFish.com (which is free). Join activities or clubs for topics you're interested in. Join a gym. Go to sporting events. Try speed dating. Let your friends set you up a blind date. Just put yourself in places where you can meet single men. Make a list of 5 places where you can meet men and get started.

Being at your best will give you confidence. When a woman is confident she exudes an energy that attracts men. Your soulmate will find it hard to ignore these qualities. At this point you won't need to ask "Where can I find my soulmate?" again. You'll be drawing your soulmate to you.

Shana is a writer, coach and consultant specializing in personal and business development, relationships and personal growth. You can read her other relationship articles at DatingTipsForFindingLove.com

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